TLDR: My married life is amazing but we are absolute opposites on sex. We talked about it, and she allowed me to do this. I look for a long term domme to use me strictly online, mostly on videocalls (of course, talking every concern and according safety measures for both of us).

Hey there! If you found that TLDR interesting enough, you may want to continue reading. I'm from Spain. I'm 194 cm tall (around 6'4) and 112kgs (245lbs). Your typical big, tall and strong nerdy guy (cliché story about being in shape, getting a big injury and gaining a lot of weight, nowadays working out daily to get back in shape, lost a lot of weight already).

As I stated before, I'm here ONLY because my partner allowed it, otherwise I would never. If she ever changes her mind on this, I'd instantly stop my activity, since her happiness and well being are the first thing to me, and will always be. Thus, I doubt it will happen, since we have been on this dynamic for years already. I'm new to Reddit, but I've been doing this for years.

Here's a little summary so you can understand my situation: My partner is super vanilla with a low libido (once a week if lucky, missionary, disgusted by creampies, barely any oral... You get the point). There's nothing wrong with it, but I'm the absolute opposite to that. During the last 8 years I'd say, I slowly developed a super submissive side that she does not fancy at all. Also, my libido is quite abnormal, I would happily have sex multiple times a day (I even considered being an addict). For obvious reasons, sex is not working between us anymore, and it led to arguments. We ended up putting things on a scale, and realising that our whole life is incredible, except this, so we found this sollution.

What I look for: A dominant woman that wants something similar to what I wish for. We can obviously talk details and adapt things so both of us are happy. My only must are videocalls, I've tried every other thing and I just don't find it arousing at all (I guess that to me, it's the closest thing to real life) Of course, I'm fine with talking, exchanging pics and everything, but the main goal will still be the same.

What I can offer: Total and unconditional submission. I can be around almost 24/7, since I work with a computer in front of me (and I would love to be given tasks at work, risk is a big turn on). I will want your attention, I will worship you, I will obey every command and constantly check if you messaged me (If things work out, we could move to Skype, Discord...). Once we start this, I automatically stop my seeking and there will be nobody else but you.

I have a good camera, a good microphone and good lightning. I also own a lot of toys (and I'll be happy to buy more if you want me to use them). Finally, my schedule is super regular. I'm always home alone at the same times every week.

Kinks: I'm 200% into edging, denial, anal and overstimulation (in the form of multiple orgasms). I'm a big fan of gentle femdom, being praised... But, I'm also an experimentalist, so anything you bring to the table will be okay unless it's one of my limits.

Limits: Scat, blood and vomit. Also, hard pain (some spaking it's fine, let's say I'm going to orgasm without your permission and you tell me to slap it so I stop... Stuff like that? Good. But probably not further than that).

More important details/info:

• I don't mind looks, weight... The only thing I care is hygiene.

• I'm 90% a premature ejaculator, use it against me as much as you want, I need training. (There's a story behind it I'd love to tell you).

• I love long sessions. Luckily I can still go for multiple rounds at 30, one orgasm is almost never enough for me. Maybe sometimes if I'm super tired, I will need a little rest, literal minutes, but then I will need to keep going.

• Besides sex, I'd love to get to know each other if that's okay with you. To talk about work, hobbies... It will be up to you how far you wish to take that part. I just think some kind of connection is necessary, and helps a lot when doing NSFW.

I really hope this caught your attention. Do not hesitate chatting with me with any doubts, suggestions... I'm sure the right person is here, we just need to see each other!