Note: The kink stuff is at the bottom, but I wanted to paint a real picture of myself overall, since I’m looking for more than just a play partner.

About Me:

I'm a father to an amazing daughter who is the light of my life. I also have a dog who thinks she’s a cat and an actual cat. I'm a kind, thoughtful person who loves animals, movies, and learning new things. I'm looking for someone who is direct, thoughtful, and wants to build something real.

My Interests:

Animals - I've always been surrounded by animals and can't imagine a life without them. I love going to the zoo, the aquarium, and hiking in nature.

Movies - I love watching movies of all genres, but my favorites are horror, dramas, and documentaries. I am also a sucker for anything time travel relate. I love to curl up on the couch with a big bowl of popcorn and watch a movie with my daughter.

Learning: I'm always up for learning new things. I love reading, taking classes, and traveling to new places. I'm always looking for new experiences and knowledge.

Weirdness - I love finding something weird or unusual and then exploring it. There isn’t a roadside attraction that I wouldn’t want to explore. Curiosities or any kind or discovering a strange local landmarks are favorites of mine.

Music - I have a strong love of music and have a playlist for virtually every occasion. I love having someone to make playlists for, so if we were to hit it off you’d surely be the recipient. I love music, concerts and records.

Thrifting - I’m a big fan of thrifting and finding both deals and treasure along the way. I enjoy trying to find things to sell online for fun! The thrill of the hunt.

Reading - I love getting lost in a good book. My favorite genres are sci-fi, biographies/memoirs, and I’m trying to work through some classics I’ve missed along the years.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm looking for someone who is direct, thoughtful, and wants to build something real. I want someone who is kind, compassionate, and has a good sense of humor. I'm looking for someone who I can connect with on a deep level and who I can grow old with.

If you're interested in getting to know me better, please send me a message. I'd love to chat with you and see if we're a good fit.

Kink stuff - I appreciate a more tender side of kink. I appreciate the most soft type of Domme. Someone who I can please, someone who is soft but firm with me, and someone who I can share those more intimate moments with without any heavy kink involved.

I am friendly, funny, and a people pleasing kind of person. I have a desire to make sure that my partner is taken care of and I like that guidance to help me become exactly what you need from me.

I like teasing, guiding, someone who can be firm but is never excessively mean.

I wish I could paint a more clear picture of what I’m looking for, but the truth is that in every D/s relationship the dynamic has to be built naturally over time based on the two people involved.