Why am I here?: I’ve been posting on this subreddit on and off for the better part of 5 years now. I’ve sadly not yet found the missing piece of my puzzle. Despite this my experiences here have been good and I’ve had more in depth conversations and pleasant interactions here than dating apps. I feel like I really get my words across and give you a peek into me as a person and not only my looks, despite those not being too shabby.

Age: I’m 23 and I’d prefer someone aged 18-26. This is because I’m looking for someone in a similar stage of life as me which works best for compatibility in lifestyle and expectations.

Location: I’m a Dutch national living in the Amsterdam metro area. Preferably I’d have my favorite person be as close to me as possible but I understand such a thing would be unlikely and I’d be open to anyone across Europe within 2 hours of my time zone which is UTC 2.

Appearance: I’m 5’9 with dark brown hair. I’ve got hazel eyes with masculine facial features and a strong jawline. I’ve got an athletic and large frame and workout and have a sizeable derriere. I’ll also be providing pictures below so you can judge for yourself. I’ve also been told I’ve got a nice voice.

Face(SFW): https://imgur.com/a/lGHQ7hP

Personality: My strongest virtues are kindness, loyalty and empathy. I am known for my friendly, respectful and supportive nature by friends and family. I’m very affectionate with my loved ones and frequently speak of my appreciation of them. My grandma doesn’t only consider me handsome but also calls me her cuddle grandchild so you can take from that fact that I’m also very physically affectionate. I’m introverted but very social, I’m positive and like spending time with people and give them my full attention and barrage them with my arsenal of goofy jokes, but afterwards I’ll need to recharge my social battery.

I take responsibility very seriously but I carry myself with laidback energy and a smile and like to make people feel at ease around me. I’m not a very judgmental person but I do have a framework of morality and accountability I personally adhere to but I consider this mostly my business, not that of others. I’m not religious but I recently have grown really interested in spirituality but despite that I’d still call myself an agnostic atheist.

My interests: The biggest love in my life, for 18 years and counting,  has been my love of history. As a boy I grew to love it and over time I discovered that everything which it touches is our kingdom are all aspects of human existence. So in a general sense I think everything that has to do with people and the world is very interesting.

I to read both fiction and non-fiction. A good story is something I really enjoy so I also watch the occasional movie or watch a series. I’m the kind of guy who watches not very many series but really gets into those which I do watch. I’m a Westeros geek and would love someone to talk about House of the dragon with.

I have a social life of my own and am usually out and about hanging out with people during the weekend. I hope one day you will witness my very predictable way of playing poker. I however don’t really engage in nightlife and am more a chill than a wild guy. I also enjoy working out in the gym, taking walks and listening to music or an audio book while doing so.

I also like playing videogames but I consider the company more important than the game. When I play by myself I usually play a lot of strategy games. However I’d love someone to hop on a call with and play all kinds of games which would be fun to play co-op.

What am I looking for?: I’ve been on here for a while now and so far I’ve had both good and bad experiences. What has made certain experiences bad is that I’ve had people approach me for only sexual favors without caring to get to know me. I want to make very clear I’m here with romantic intent and I’m looking for someone to care for and cherish in their entirety, not just as a domme.

Ideally you’d be somewhere in Europe, my personality appeals to you and you’d share interests with me. The kind of thing I’d like is to hangout on VC, text, maybe play some videogames or watch a movie/series together. We could start off as friends with a femdom connection, teasing me or asserting some kind of dominance on me would only give me butterflies in my stomach, and naturally progress from there.

Closing statements: if my ad spoke to you  I’d love to hear from you. If you valued this ad but didn’t but I don’t relate to your personal tastes I’d highly appreciate your support and thank you for reading!