Hi there! I am a 31-yo woman from the Midwest US area!

I work in social media and then in voice acting on the side. I also enjoy writing, TTRPGs, video games (am super big on Baldur's Gate 3 right now), going on walks, museums, "unique" trip ideas (like caving; splenking; skydiving; exploring city catacombs and just creative trip ideas!!); watching YouTube video essays, cooking/baking (soft pretzels are a science), thrifting, and spoiling my 2 cats.

Another thing about me is I love the '80s, like everything about them as a whole. Even in my apt, I have some '80s furniture and tchotchkes. 🤣 I also love people with their own strong aesthetic tastes, even if they are not currently following them...I know post-COVID I basically started dressing rather simply in block colors most of the time and never stopped lol.

I was an English major and I really love classic literature, with modernist period lit being my fave.

My brain: I'm told I'm shy until you get to know me, but I think I can be pretty outgoing. I will definitely gush about how cute you are, and think I could be your "he said no pickles" person. Also been told that I'm "chill" to a fault. I don't like to be mean to anyone, ever. I will probably have to be reminded that you enjoy teasing 🤣 (if you do) I do have problems opening up to people and can be slow to reply. It's not you, it's a bad brain day / depression day. But no excuses, I'm looking into starting therapy soon. Suspected but not formally diagnosed AuDHD (autism ADHD). Everyone and their brother has told me I probably have autism so may as well go get it officially documented. 😅

Also I'm not super certain that I am looking for something serious at the moment or not. These are just things I wanted to be upfront about!! 😊

I'm open to having a family someday but am not in a big hurry to / more on the fence.

Addtl note, I do take time to be open to voice chat and video call, sending pictures etc. Hope that's okay. And of course I 10000% want to respect any boundaries you have as well!

(BTW bonus points if you say "blueberry" somewhere when you reach out. I don't like to be one of those people that expects someone to read an entire long post in full, however. Also I love blueberries. They're so good. But one of my cats chases them around the house...And then I get lost blueberries I find shriveled up 6 months later...)

Appearance: I am 5' 10", pale, dark blonde hair I usually keep longish, and around 150 lbs. My mom once mistook the Wandavision lady for me but I thought that was a way overly flattering comparison and it was a small picture of her. Lol. I do have medium-large breasts, do with that what you will. (Hopefully something.) I don't like talking about looks a ton but I totally respect that people have types and preferences!

In terms of how I present myself, I like fashion a lot but can prefer anything from high femme to more androgynous styles depending on how I'm feeling. Also big shocker that I like to thrift and have many 80s pieces. I love the 80s mom jeans and can be your 80s sitcom mommy lol.

Sex/kinks: Sex-wise I am by default a very soft domme and also not particularly experienced but have heard I'm a natural 😅 I also enjoy hearing "Mommy" ;3

JOI, CEI, edging, mommy, toy use, nursing handjob, fem/panties, pet play, nipple play (if you don't want me touching them then probably swipe left sorryyy I'm feral), noisy/moaning sub (😖😖), sex games like having a gentle-activity sex wheel of fortune would be dope. If you're into Locktober and chastity I'm down to discuss but far from a requirement!

Also I am a domme-leaning switch. I have no "need" to sub, but am very open to it and have similar kinks as sub (soft dom etc.)

Soft limits: being yelled at or yelling at someone

Hard limits: significant to extreme pain, bathroom stuff

I also enjoy, y'know, vanilla sex. In fact when I took a test I got 80% vanilla which made it my highest category 🤷‍♀️

Partner preferences: My one requirement, PLEASE BE A LEFTIST! And prefer 25 but I may still be interested in chatting if you are 23 or 24. But I'm not a cougar I just play one on TV. Also just in general, while I think confidence is awesome, I'm not a fan of arrogance because we're all little meaningless specks in the universe at the end of the day. I'm not super compatible with religious folks for that reason either.

Feel free to ask any questions you might have because I feel like I organized this really super poorly. Oh well.

I look forward to learning about you, the MORE the better! I would love to get a longer message and just learn a shitton about you!! Feel free to nerd out about your interests from the get-go. I'm sure it's great!! (Also please let me know any limits you have before things go in that direction, but I would also like to just talk casually first.)

Looking forward to meeting you. 😊