About Me:

I'm a 30 year old male and single parent, I realise straight away that might put people off, so I am putting that out now.

In my professional life, I've been working for the last 10 years in finance. I've previously dealt with my own financial hardship, however have dealt with that and I'm now working hard to save to afford a mortgage. I will say now that I've not interest in Findom and that providing a future for myself and my family is my number one priority.

I have also recently begun studying again to work towards an accountancy degree, this is very important to me, however I've found I have more free time than expected since I went back into education.

In my personal life, I'm a goofball and a nerd. I enjoy making people smile and have been told I'm pretty charming. I enjoy gaming, but I also enjoy staying fit and healthy. I play football, enjoy going on walks and would like to like snowdon in the near future.

My Kink Experience:

I've been involved in kink for a long time. When I was younger I attended my local munch, and have been part of a kink group for semi regular meet ups, but mostly just to meet friends within the community.

I have previous experience as a sub, and have learnt to communicate well with my domme and establish limits.

I enjoy: Soft Domme, Pet Play, soft - med impact play, collars, electro play, light humiliation, physically strong women.

I'd like to try: Wax Play, charity, cbt, pegging

My limits: scat, 24/7, knives, cnc, cuckold

Why I would like a dynamic:

I've been single for the past 5 years, unfortunately my previous relationship was toxic and abusive, it left me with some trauma. I took the time to see a therapist and get myself back on my feet.

Kink has always been a part of my life, I enjoy them and would like for them to play a part in a future relationship.

What I would like:

I'm in no rush to pull down my pants and submit to the first lady that demands I do. My limits aren't going to be negotiated, and as a parent I have a commitment to my child that comes before any potential relationship.

I would like to get to know a dominant lady, as friends before anything else, its important we connect on an intellectual level and frankly that we both find each other attractive.

I will happily share sfw and eventually nsfw pictures with someone that I do connect with. I want to build a dynamic built on friendship and hopefully a sustainable relationship.

Hopefully you:

Age: Between 25 - 40

I hope we are able to share in some interests outside of kink. I find intelligence sexy and love hearing about your hobbies and your day to day activities. I think its important in a healthy relationship that we both have fulfilling lives separate from one another.

I enjoy speaking regularly, through either messages, voice notes or hopefully phone calls, but don't want to talk 24/7, I do have a fairly busy life between work and parenthood and don't want to be glued to my phone.

Initially I'd like to keep the relationship online, with the potential to meet up assuming all is going well. It's important to me that you are also from the UK, outside of that, I am willing to travel to meet the right person.

Thank you to anyone that takes the time to read my waffle, if you could tell me your favourite colour when you message, to let me know you've read this, I would appreciate it