Hey there! I'm Charlie. I'm here to hopefully find love.

Only really interested in something with the intention of meeting up IRL & with longterm potential. As a disclaimer, I'm open to matching with people from the U.S., but I'm NOT open to moving there permanently. Something to keep in mind in case you're from there.

About Me

So yeah, I'm Charlie - I'm dutch, caucasian with blonde hair (check the picture on my profile for reference) and I tend to get described by friends as a "lovable idiot" and someone with "golden retriever / labrador energy". I’m a simple dude; All I want in my life is to enjoy myself and try to help others feel better as well. I work in local government and have a background in psychology. Related to this, I’m pretty left-wing as I don’t support politics that are in favor of human suffering.

I'm an introvert. I like a small party with friends and like-minded folks every now and then, but most of all prefer spending quality time with someone one-on-one, especially when that someone is my romantic partner. I have a ton of things I enjoy, from nerdy stuff to adventury things - I'm a couch potato that's into lots of different types of boardgames & videogames, baking delicious cakes and cookies; and at the same time I can thoroughly enjoy hikes, rollercoasters, motorcycling roadtrips, and the occasional adventure. There's plenty more to talk about and I can definitely talk your ears off if I'm comfortable around you, but I'll refrain from making this bio any longer than it has to be. (I am very easily excitable, especially when it's with someone I'm into!)

A little about my kinks

I see kink and submitting as an extension of how I display my love for someone. A short disclaimer here however, as I do have limited experience, but experience nonetheless. Here's the 2 things that I feel most aptly describe my subbing style. - Worship: I get pleasure from giving pleasure; I want to do everything in my power to serve and make my Domme feel good. Taking care of her needs as much as I can, both sexual & non-sexual is something I would be so intensely happy about. My desire is to make her feel as if she's in heaven, that she is at her utmost comfort for as long as she wants. In the end, to serve and to please her is the most important aspect to me - how we get there is a fun bonus. - Ownership: Ultimately, I would love to become the property of my Domme. This can be through either kinky or non-kinky things; and both sexual and non-sexual. I want to be utterly and completely hers, being devoted to her and her alone. Submitting my mind, my body, and my soul for her to do with, make use of, and cherish as she sees fit - that's the dream. I can see applications in both psychological and physical ways and I could share a platitude of fantasies here but I feel like it's easier to just talk about it if you deem it to be something of interest. - Ask me for more details, but unless they're part of my limits I'm very much into or at the very least curious about a lot of kinks within Femdom! I think this is a nice segue into...

Limits

Again, feel free to ask me, but here's a brief rundown of the big ones, however.

Soft Limits (in other words, open for discussion):

• Humiliation
• Degradation

Hard Limits:

• I don't do cuckold/forced bi/open relationships. On either side. No exceptions.
• No Extreme torture (intense pain that can cause lasting damage and whatnot)
• Public humiliation / Public Exhibitionism (I don't approve of bothering other people with kinks when they haven't consented to this. Doing things in secret in a public place is a different story!)
• Body shaming / Bigotry

Then a little bit about you

While I don't necessarily have a very specific image of what my 'Dream Domme' is like, I do have some general ideas based on previous experiences with what I vibe well with.

• I tend to be very attracted to confidence, directness, and a good degree of enthusiasm. It's often that kind of energy someone has that makes me head over heels about them!
• As for hobbies/interests, though we of course don't have to match on everything, I think it'd work the best if you at least have a little bit of overlap with the hobbies I stated above. Would love to play some games or do some hikes together at some point for example! Just cuddles and a movie also works very well however :)
• That's pretty much it as far as I'm aware! Most of it comes down to the vibe I feel. So just send me a message if I sound like your kinda guy!

P.S: If you're also from NL, feel free to message me in Dutch!

==Obligatory results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Submissive 87% Slave 84% Rope bunny 82% Experimentalist 81% Pet 61% Masochist 47% Vanilla 39% Degradee 23% Primal (Prey) 18% Exhibitionist 16% Voyeur 7% Brat 0% Age player 0% Boy/Girl 0% Non-monogamist 0% Switch