About me:

My name is Julian. I’m a 28 year old, lean-built, itali-asian service submissive with a very small side of switch. I’m not quite albino white, but I’m pretty pale, average height (I really don’t know how tall I am, but I can reach the top shelf, so that’s good enough for me) and my best feature used to be my butt, back when I had my exercise phase in middle-high school, but now I think it’s my stomach. It’s no six pack or anything, but it’s soft, flat and fairly defined.

I’m looking for something serious and long term ideally, but friends and fun are welcome too. This will be the first Locktober I participate in, so I’d be happy to have some friendly support if nothing else.

I would say I identify as fem-sexual. I like feminine women or women between feminine and masculine (tomboys are awesome),but also I might kneel for a pretty femboy and maybe do more. Masculine men and women, as well as inbetween men, don’t do it for me. If you like forced bi, find a pretty femboy and I’ll happily get spit roasted between you both.

I am mostly a gamer, but I also like to read and very occasionally write (though never finish) recreationaly. I also like to watch anime. Unfortunately I don’t have many hobbies. Fortunately, I’d love to try-out/bond-over some new ones with my potential domme.

My only remotely sexual experience comes from a scheduled session with a domme I saw for my birthday almost a month ago. Since then, my day-to-day life has been unfulfilling to say the least. I dearly miss being told what to do by a beautiful and commanding woman and serving her to the best of my abilities. With a more long term Mistress, I hope to find purpose in making her life easier and more enjoyable, something that I only scratched the surface of in my first experience.

My two biggest turn-ons are feet and chastity, and they’re the only two that I couldn’t do without. I’d like to surrender my keys to my Mistress and let her enjoy the power to permit or withhold my pleasure. I’d love to massage and worship her feet after a long day at work, or a session at the gym/track/trail, or have her worn socks pressed to my nose.

Apart from those, teasing, edging, denial, restraints, blindfolds, sensory play, anything that makes me a shameless, helpless, and quivering puddle of desperation - all of those help get me there. Praise is also huge for me, I need to know when I’m doing a good job.

I enjoy being enjoyed, which is to say that by making my Mistress happy and satisfied, I experience a sense of pride and satisfaction as well. My ultimate fantasy is to serve as a mostly full-time house slave, responsible for cooking three square meals a day - including breakfast in bed, - cleaning, laundry, trash, dishes, all of it. When Mistress comes home to a clean house and an eagerly-waiting pet, I want to see the relief in her face when she sees all I’ve done for her, and the warm bubble bath I prepared ahead of time. We can appreciate eachother over dinner and either play or prepare for the hardships of tomorrow before snuggling up together for bed.

Also, I like proof of ownership. This can be as simple as bruises from funishment or body writing, all the way to a collar or more. I like to know my domme cares enough about me to mark me as hers. The evidence on my body makes my heart race and gives me the butterflies feeling in my stomach.

Plenty more things that I enjoy that aren’t listed, so if you’ve got specific things you’re looking for that weren’t mentioned, please ask!

I am open to sharing my Mistress and I’m also open to traveling to meet if we click, and relocating for the right person.

Preferences:

Ages 20-35 are most comfortable, but I’ve been attracted to as old as 46. My Mistress can be sugar or spice. I like a gentle domme, but I like to be bullied too. I prefer more slender builds. Any height is fine! Taller has domme mommy energy, smaller is easier to give uppies, same size makes the logistics simpler. I’d like an experienced domme, but it’s not very important. If you’re inexperienced, we can explore together. You can build me up or put me down, but be prepared for the aftercare if you put me down.

A Mistress that likes to teach and train is a plus. Didn’t particularly take to school well, but I can absolutely knowledge sponge topics that interest me, and I’m very interested in being the best version of myself for my Mistress. I’d love to learn how to give her a mani/pedi, or how to brush her hair, or how she likes to be massaged.

A Mistress that wants to enforce Locktober, NNN, and Denial December would make me swoon. . . and ache in the best way. That being said, I’d like a dynamic with healthy amounts of vanilla. I don’t want to feel like we’re in scene all day everyday, just almost all day for almost everyday (at most).

I’m very adaptable, so getting along should be fairly frictionless if you’re reasonably respectful.

Limits and other non-negotiables:

Ass-to-mouth, smokers (weed’s fine), racists (racist humor is fine; jokes aren’t serious and shouldn’t be taken seriously (looking at you, Will Smith)), findom, the usual suspects (blood, scat, anything permanent), fire. If you’re not sure, just ask.

If you’ve read this far, here I am. https://freeimage.host/i/dDEKQhN