I'm looking for a domme and while I don't have much experience with being a sub, the idea of a confident and dominant woman taking charge is something I would love. I'm open to exploring short-term dynamics, but what I'd really like is to eventually build something meaningful and long-term, if we click.
A little about me:
I'm 21, 180cm tall, with an average build. I’ve got short brown hair, brown eyes, and a trimmed beard (but I'm open to shaving if that’s your preference). I’d describe myself as calm, soft-spoken, and just generally an introvert. Though I'm a bit shy at first (especially irl) I'm sure that will change once we get to know each other. And I can get kinda clingy with the right person. I'm also not that confident tbh so I would really appreciate you taking the lead in this dynamic and guiding me through it.
I'm very submissive, though I have a playful/ bratty side and enjoy challenging authority every now and then. So you'd definitely have to remind me who's in control when that happens ;)
In terms of kinks, I’m into humiliation, orgasm control/chastity, tpe, praise and mdlb. I'm open-minded and eager to explore new experiences, so I'm always down to try something new. I also love to cuddle and I really love the emotional aspect of such a dynamic. And I know this sounds counterintuative but I've recently come to the conclusion that I might be asexual. Which doesn't mean I don't care about sex/kinks but rather that I dont really feel sexual attraction and that the emotional side is a lot more important to me. But I'm still a bit unsure about that because I dont really have any experiences tbh so maybe I'm just imagining things idk.
Outside the bedroom, I enjoy spending my free time drawing with my tablet, gaming on my pc, or hanging out with friends. I’ve also started teaching myself to play violin recently (though I’m still very much a beginner haha). And I used to watch anime and read manga pretty often, so I know quite a lot of shows. And who knows, maybe you'll even inspire me to get back into watching anime if you're watching it yourself. I also like sci-fi and thinking about the universe or rather aliens/the fermi paradox lol.
I don't really have any preferences for looks tbh, but if you're taller than me somehow that's a plus lol. And I’d like to meet up in person eventually, as I’m looking for more than just an online connection, so please be open to that.
I live in southern Germany, and there’s a picture of me on my profile if you’re curious. If you're from nearby countries like Austria or the Czech Republic, feel free to reach out too, as long as you're not too far away.
If this sounds interesting to you, send me a message. I’d love to chat and see where this could go. And don't hesitate to take the lead :)
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