Hi there, I'm [33 NB, 6', 154lb] an experienced sub that's been self locking and engaging in some ad hoc service over the last 6 years. Ideally I'd like someone to keep me locked for Locktober, with the option to keep going if it feels right. Communication is key, so I'd like to engage with someone on a regular basis.
I was in service to a sadistic Dom a while ago, and unfortunately life got in the way for both of us and the relationship ended. While I enjoy some good sadism, I also work a full time job and have a husband (he knows, consents, and is encouraging me to put myself out there more).
What I'm looking for is either online or in person, and works well with both of our lives (meaning I don't want to be needy and overburden you and I don't want to put my career or marriage at risk).
I'm into a lot, but what underpins it is that I derive pleasure from submitting. There are things that genuinely bring me pleasure, but that's not what submission is for me. I'd prefer to talk through things first and see if there's good chemistry, then go from there.
Specifically, I'm into humiliation, degradation, chores or tasks, (reasonable) public play, toys, training, cross dressing (as an act of power and subversion), impact play, CBT, and WS.
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