Hey there! I'm here to hopefully find domme to connect with on a deeper level. Allow me to introduce myself. I'm a 23 year old guy from the Netherlands. If i had to describe my aesthetic I'd call it nerdy retriever metalhead. I'm 6'2, average build, have long blonde hair and a short beard. I'm also tattood with more to follow.

Now, if that sounds up your alley and you're interested in reading more, allow me to indulge you! As i said, I'm a huge nerd. I love movies, video games, writing, mythology and folklore and playing TTRPG's. I also listen to music a lot. Metal, ambient, Pagan Folk, lofi, jazz, movie and video game soundtracks, rock, goth stuff. You name it, I probably listen to it! Furthermore i have a huge weakness for animals, in particular my own kitty, and I love being in nature. If you share any of these hobbies i will undoubtedly like you!

In terms of what I'm looking for, it really depends on the distance. I'm open to whatever type of connections or dynamics come my way but I know from experience that long distance is tricky for me in stuff like this. So I'd prefer something irl or at least in my country. However, don't let that stop you from applying, as long as you're aware in that case it might be a bit more of a casual non exclusive dynamic or simply occasional play sessions among friends if you're into that!

Age wise I'm open to a lot, but I'm probably looking for someone who i can relate to most, which seems to be between the ages of 22-40 ish! One or 2 years outside of that i would consider, but please mention that up front if you'd be so kind. Also I'd prefer you to be single or practicing ENM/polyamory. I'm not into cuckoldry and don't condone cheating.

Your body type doesn't matter, all bodies are beautiful in my book. I must confess i do have a thing for curvy or chubby women, so brownie points if that applies to you, but it's absolutely not a must. So whether you're tall, short, skinny or chubby, I'd love to get to know you!

I feel i should also mention my huge weakness for alternative and goth women, so if you identify as such, you'll be warmly welcomed in my DM's!

After all is said and done I'd just love to get to know you on a personal level and hopefully form a friendship or more! I find i do need a connection of trust before i enter a dynamic with someone.

Now, what you're probably most interested in if all this sounds good is my kinky side! I know i would be!

I have a lot of kinks I'm at least somewhat interested in trying, and a lot is open for discussion, but I'll try to distill it to what i enjoy a lot, what I'd love to try, what my hard limits are, the kind of sub i am and what I'm looking for in a domme! I should preface this saying I'm not trying to just list my kinks and looking for a dispenser. Rather I'm trying to lay my cards on the table and see if we might be able to find a groove in mutual satisfaction. :)

I'm a fan of the softer side of domming. That doesn't mean i dislike a mean streak, on the contrary. But overall I'm a bit more of a fan of the caring mommy domme vibe. The sweet and gentle, with occasional firmness if i misbehave. As a sub i might occasionally get a tad bratty or fight back a bit, but in the end i do love to submit and give over control! I greatly enjoy worshipping my domme and being affectionate and needy for them as well. It depends on the day how much i feel like fighting back or instantly submitting, which is always up for discussion of course.

As for kinks themselves, like i said, I'm a fan of gentle (mommy) domming. But it must be said I'm not a fan of age play. I just like the honorific. Facesitting with a bit of breath control is a big one for me, as is edging/milking, anal play (though I'm not very experienced yet) light bondage and body worship. I love making whoever I'm with feel good, and i am a big fan of being praised for it as well. I also seem to have a thing for tongues, spit and making out. So bonus points if you're into that. Obviously you don't have to be into all of these, but it helps if you have a few that interest you!

Some things I'd be open to try include watersports, bi fantasies and feet worship.

As for hard limits, there's scat, vomit, blood, CBT, sounding, heavy pain and Findom. I'm also not a fan of chastity cages, but orgasm control is something we could discuss. Heavier bondage is sadly tricky, as my body is quite fragile as a result of a light physical disability so that would depend on what and how.

If you've read this far, first of all, thank you very much! :)

Secondly please name your favorite color in your message so i know you've read my entire ad. And tell me a bit about yourself if you decide to message me! Name, age, location and what sparked your interest is a good start! The rest I'm sure will come later! See you soon!