Important to know about me: I'm 6'2. I enjoy traveling to experience new cultures. I have a big beard that I constantly think about shaving, a few tattoos, and a few piercings. I play pretend farmer on the 9 acres I have. I currently have goats/geese/chickens a ton of tomato plants despite not liking tomatoes. I would never recommend or wish goats on anyone. They're straight up menaces to my garden and fences.

I listen to books on tapes when I'm out on running adventures, but someday I'd like to do the 52-book challenge and read books instead of listening to them. I've been to munches in the Seattle area, at places like the CSPC and some bars/parks for the kink community and it's great out here! I can cook, clean, and I tend to do DIY housework most weekends. There is very few things I wont do myself, and recently DIY installed a full solar system on my roof.

I work in the tech/video game industry.... I'll give you three guesses as to which company. I am self-sufficient, have a house/car/retirement. I am not rich, but I live a good life. I am still advancing in my career.

What I'm looking for: I am interested in meeting new people and I'm open to either a LTR or just play partners. I am all about pro-Dommes but I'm not looking for one right now. I am looking for a lifestyle partner. The important thing to me is open and honest communication. I do have a house and car so can host or travel. I'd prefer to meet up somewhere publicly or chat on the phone before.

I will always be respectful of your home, privacy, needs, wishes, etc... I am a human being capable of empathy. I may make mistakes, but I will own them and have no issues saying, "I'm sorry" and "I was wrong."

I won't ghost you! I'm not currently a horned up so this is all coming from a place of reason.

Kink wise: I am very into (long term or otherwise) chastity and orgasm denial. I recently got a Prince Albert to that end. Lock it up and throw at the key (ok don't really?). I'm also good with FLR/TPE but I'd prefer gentle domme. I know it's not everyone's cup of tea, but you must at least be accepting of ABDL. I am all about it and while you don't need to be, I am looking to incorporate it into whatever dynamic.

I would love to come be a service sub for you and help with chores, give massages, or whatever you'd like! I'll happily hold your bags while shopping! I am curious but hesitant about cuckolding and humiliation. I am willing to negotiate on a lot of things though. I don't actually think there's enough room to mention everything that I really enjoy or want to try but I'm happy to discuss particulars. If there's something you don't see but you're curious anyway, reach out!

I will happily switch as well.

Some of my hard limits: I am not interested in CBT or pain play (aside from spanking) but understand many dommes are. I am open to negotiation on this. I am not okay with actual blackmail, non-consent, findom unless in a long-term relationship, drawing blood in most cases, and breath play. Hard limits are obviously non-negotiable, but I do think there are ways to incorporate something as trust and understanding grows.

If you read this, I'd love to hear from you.