35 [m4f] #online #Argentina switch/inexperienced sub seeks guidance
Hello future Misstress, Miss, Ma'am, master etc. I hope youre all well. I have posted this before in other communities, so if it looks familiar it probably is. But it's my first time posting here.
Just to get it out of the way because it has been a recurring problem. I will not share any vulnerable photos or follow any instructions until after we have both verified. Even if you have a verified account. I hope this is agreeable for you all, but it is a hard limit. After that though, I am not shy in showing off :)
I'm 35 m 174.5cm 18cm athletic/slim but not ripped. No gut at all. Handsome face nice hair brown and brown eyes. I'm Argentian/Italian. Originally from the US. But my childhood was in south America. My Spanish unfortunately is all new, but pretty decent.
I do have experience. But I've only been pegged a few times. I loved it but it wasn't quite there. My ex from years ago pegged me. Multiple times. Never came so hard. The problem though, was that I did have to top from the bottom. I don't blame her, she wasn't dominant. She was open and I'll always appreciate her. But it's given me an unscratable itch. In those moments, I wanted to be her bitch. I didn't care if she hurt me. I wanted to be hers however she wanted. I've never been able to give someone that fully. Just small instances here and there. It aches. There's a part of yourself behind a glass, window shopping, I know it's for me but I haven't been able to afford it. Because it is not an item you can buy alone. I'm also patient and enjoy joy life (more the theory of it), so I know my day will come. That being said why not experience it online before I find it irl. I'm from the US but live in Argentina. I'm going to munches, or as they call them here, alters. I've been in the community for a bit. I'm no pro, but I'm accostumbed. I also have dyslexia and my auto correct doesn't know what I was trying to type when I typed it, accustomed. Wait, that one looks right...
I'm a good conversationalist. Though my charm doesn't come off so well in text. Would love to have a phone call if we vibe. See if we vibe more.
I'm open to a lot of kinks. I like pain, I like giving pleasure, and I love to adore beauty.
Pain, humiliation, degradation, praise, love, respect, disrespect, and feeling like a slut.
And I want to give what I expect. Obidience, praise, thinking of what they may want and giving it, open to punishment at all times, liking the idea of never being perfect but always trying to be, completing tasks, not thinking everything will be sexual, my pleasure being your pleasure, my pleasure being your pleasure, my pleasure being your pleasure. That this is not about getting off, it is about serving. That there is no greater pleasure than doing just that.
Of course I have limits. Only newbies say they have none. And those that truely have none... Well they have crossed into an entirely different plane of existence.
I need someone who understands the theory in practice of domination. Like I've said I've been in the community and gone to events. There are many dom(mes) who believe it's about me doing what you say without proper conversation and boundary setting with safety and establishing ways of communicating. I don't like being told I'll find out what kind of domme and person you are once I agree to submit. I want to know what I'm getting into so I can feel safe being vulnerable. I need to be absolutely certain you are who you say you are of you're expecting explicit content from me. Which I'm more than happy to send. Btw.
I'm a kind person and no one would expect me to be submissive. But we all can change behind closed doors. You'll find me sweet and caring. Love girls nights. Doing facials, wine, cheese boards, and answering questions that can narrow down true love. But it isn't that I'm not masculine. It's that I'm comfortable in who I am and what I want.
If you want a shy pushover, I'm not your person. I also never co spider myself to be an alpha. I am unassuming. And I think with enough time anyone would learn to like me. But i also don't care if someone doesn't.
If you want a confident semi hairy in touch with his feminine (always a learning and growing process) man. Perfect. But I'm not perfect. I lack direction. And you thrive on direction, yes?
I'm ready to commit to the next three months. Maybe longer, but this window in time is open for me as I transition from one place to another.
I hope I can give you what you need. 🙇
Excited to hear from you... etc
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