Hey! Hopefully this isn't too long of a post, but looking for someone genuine and hopefully looking for something aligned with what I've written below. As long as this post is up, feel free to send a message! Ideally would be a monogamous female led relationship but I am also open to (online) play partners, friends, or anyone that just wants to chat :)
About vanilla me:
I am 25/m, single, asian, in Vancouver, BC. A few things that I absolutely love are snowboarding (willing to teach you!), basketball, musicals, and eating any yummy foods. In the winter you can usually find me up on the mountains. I am very often a homebody, but enjoy the occasional adventure into nature! Traveling is definitely a priority of mine that I would love to find someone to share adventures with. I am generally someone that is available to communicate throughout the day, so don't be alarmed if I reply within 30s of your message. I have been getting myself into the habit of working out on a regular basis, as well as learning more recipes to cook so please give me your best recipes! I am a night owl and loves the peace and quiet that the night brings. I am willing to verify myself once we start chatting and getting to know one another :)
About not vanilla me:
Throughout the last several years, I've been involved and participating in kink-related communities on my own, online with friends, as well as having in person dynamics and have discovered and explored my submissive side a lot. I've had experiences as a top and thoroughly enjoyed it but I would classify myself as a sub-leaning switch. I am definitely not a total beginner, but do feel like I have a lot of things I want to explore with the right person. In my past dynamics, I found that having a friendship and relationship outside of the dynamic is important as well, getting to know each other and actually caring for one another just makes everything better. I have learned that as a sub, I genuinely enjoy the submission aspect, giving up control and pleasing my Domme through submitting. Being given rules is something I absolutely love in dynamics, being micromanaged and used pushes a lot of my buttons as a submissive. A few of my main kinks include tease/denial/chastity, rules, predicaments/challenges, hidden public, and anal. This is a pretty small list, but I am someone that is willing to try things at least once and love to explore new things together! I also have an ever-growing collection of toys that I would love to share and have fun with together, dildos, fucking machine, chastity cages, plugs, just to name a few. ps, please include the word 'pineapple' either in the title or first few sentences of your message so I know you're reading!
About you:
Ideally you'd be single, between the ages of 22 and 30 give or take a few years, and are looking for something similar to what I've described above. Location is not as important, I am open to starting online first, but it would definitely be a plus if you're local or at least within North American timezone. Once again, you definitely don't have to completely align to what I described above and I would love to get to know you over time and seeing how we can shape our dynamic to be the best it can be. I'm open to exploring dynamics as a sub, switch, or Dom, so reach out if anything above striked a note for you. You're also someone that wants to go on a McDonalds adventure at 3am but won't let me touch the fries until I agree to drive home nude :'D. You're someone that wants a relationship that betters the both of us. Someone that wants to spend the day in the mountains, hit a jazz bar for the evening and cuddle up to a movie at night.
What to message me:
If you've made it this far... I hope you're still interested! Please send me a message, letting me know a little about you vanilla and non-vanilla, what you're looking for, and what particular thing in my post interested you the most. Also please include your age, location in your message. Looking forward to chatting!
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