To explain, I'm partially asexual. I have a lot of sensory discomfort with other people's bodies, that may get better if I get more acclimated to being with other people, as I've still barely scratched the surface of irl sex. So no promises, if I meet the perfect person on here I might end up liking you a lot and worshiping your body after all, but that hasn't been the pattern so far and I don't think it's very likely. The long and short of it is that I haven't been super comfortable sexually interacting with anyone else's body, which is the part of my sexuality I feel bad about. I love getting rimmed, it's one of my favorite feelings in the world, but I'm not chomping at the bit to do it to someone else. I love getting fucked in the butt, but the idea of putting my dick in someone else's butt is something I really hope nobody ever wants me to do. I love sending nudes, but when someone sends a nude to me I just get anxious because I'm expected to feel things that I just don't feel. My eyes don't pop out of my head and I don't say awooga when I see a pretty girl naked, I'm not disgusted either of course, I just want to compliment her skin or the effort she went through to get the perfect angle because I don't know what I'm supposed to say and I don't have any sexual urges towards anyone else's body. As a dude I feel like that puts me in a very weird spot and I have no idea how I'm supposed to explain this to women who probably don't even know what femdom is :p Like what happens when I hit it off with a woman and she starts doing sexy woman things, and I just have to awkwardly sit there and pretend it's doing something for me? Tits or ass? Neither, honestly. Does MY ass count?

Again I really want to stress that I haven't fully pressure tested this, it could very well be that I've just never been fully acclimated to bodies in general, because I've never been in a LTR. I would like to limit test this because I feel on some level it's pathological, I'm not gonna go into too much detail here for fear of oversharing but I'm not shy to confront those feelings and talk about them if you're not :) I hope this hasn't sounded too clinical or unsexy so far!

So some specifics would be that I don't like spit (but do like kissing) I don't like being in a dominant position over a woman's body at all (facesitting possibly the only exception) and I don't want to put my dick between anyone else's legs. I've done it and it was fine, I'm not traumatized or anything, but whenever I think about being in a piv style situation there's some palpable psychological discomfort for some reason. I think I would vibe best with someone who likes to be in charge, who likes to see me naked and touch me and make me moan, but who doesn't feel much if any desire to be sexualized herself. I've met a few people like that so I know they're out there, I'm hoping to find some with this post!

Aside from that, I'm a nerd, an epic gamer man, an artiste, and an annoying leftist :) Always happy to meet and get to know new people, so don't hesitate to shoot me a message if that sounds at all interesting!