I'm 30M, 6'2", 210lbs, 17% body fat. Had a vasectomy. I really love gaming, hiking/exploring, reading, learning new art skills and honing existing ones, and history. I'm pagan and my special interests include reptiles, the Celts, foraging, science, 80s alternative music, gothic horror, surrealism, cyberpunk, and speculative fiction.

I work nights in a warehouse, I'm sober and no longer own a car, nor do I intend to as I'm saving a lot of money this way. After about five years of going to different events, performing poetry and music live, going to sports and hiking events, etc to try to branch out, I found I just don't enjoy crowds nor relate with most people. I was diagnosed high-functioning autistic back in 2022 and all of my friends have been, or are, on the spectrum.

I love meeting new and interesting people! I am compassionate and sympathetic, but highly driven by intellectual curiosity and pursuits. I really would love a partner who enjoys sharing their knowledge and fascinations with me on any subjects of their choosing.

Looking for someone preferably between 25 and 35 years of age, preferably nearby. I recently lost 130lbs in the last two years and so I'm looking for someone fit to overweight but not obese because I was rejected for my weight a lot when I was fat. I'd like a relationship, but if that's something someone can't accommodate in their life right now, I am okay with casual.

I am an emotional masochist, not a physical one. I really like play with "angst" and denial, so tease & denial and cuckold play are my dreams. I am actually fine if we don't need to go that far, and I'm totally willing to experiment. I only know what I have tried in the past and what I fantasize about the most, and I know that as long as I feel valued outside the bedroom, just about any amount of teasing within it is fine by me. I'm more concerned with ensuring that someone interested in a relationship with me would be okay with knowing I fantasize about them sleeping with someone else, as the revelation of this has hurt the ideas of intimacy and value of women I really loved and valued when they found out, so I try to disclose it up front. I usually wait til sex is brought up, but this is the place to disclose it first, so I have.

I don't believe I have to own someone to love them, so I'm okay with both polyamorous and monogamous relationship styles. As long as I can have sex with my lover, I don't really care how much they have or with who. I feel emotional and sexual chemistry are absolutely essential for any kind of commitment, though I'm happy to take things slow. If it is meant to be, it will flow, I believe.

I can't wait to hear from you!