Good evening, I hope this post finds you well.

I'm looking to have a deep connection and bond with someone, with Locktober coming up I really want to try. I want us to talk dirty just as often and casually as we do about our day. I want to send each other good morning messages and talk all day until we go to sleep. I want to fulfill your fantasies just as much as you fulfill mine. Granted, over the internet that is tricky, but there is room to experiment. You are not a kink dispenser, nor am I. So let's treat each other with mutual respect and dignity, yeah?

I am twenty eight, decently masculine. 5' 10", 155 lbs, slimish build. I could hit the gym, but couldn't we all? Having someone to encourage me to go regularly would be nice. I have short brown hair that is overdue for a trim, and when I grow my facial out it has hints of copper in it. And finally my eyes are green/gray. I think they're pretty, despite how much I don't like eyes. Overall I consider myself above average in appearance, but hardly a model. Picture of my face available once we've built some trust, and you're willing to share one of you in return.

I'm expecting you to be similar in age, anywhere from 23 to 30, but this is by no means set in stone. Any color hair is lovely, the longer the better. I ask you be in decent shape, I know I'm not the biggest guy around but I'm attracted to girls smaller than I am. Maybe when I'm not feeling as subby I'd love to be able to toss you around a bit.~

I'm not terribly interested in an FLR, I still have my own goals and ambitions, and would prefer our dynamic be relegated to stay in the bedroom or online, for the most part. I'm not opposed to meeting up once we have that bond and trust, but I will not relocate should things get that far.

My major kinks include bondage, leather, pegging/anal, chastity (more on that in a moment), collars, orgasm control and denial, light choking, joi, toys, and above all else, an intelligent and pretty girl behind it all.

Chastity is a huge part of the dynamic and fantasy for me. The concept of a small, intimate toy opens it up to far more personal and deep interactions, both in the bedroom and outside of it. I could wax poetic for a long time about why I enjoy wearing a cage, beyond just the physical aspects. Being able to have a bond with someone I trust enough to give my keys too is a huge thing for me. Knowing that I'm wearing the cage for someone else is a huge turn on. But I don't want that to be something outside of the bedroom. If we were ever to meet up in person, which I am not opposed to, then I want it to be no one could guess that you bear my keys.

In line with that, I want to build a relationship outside of the D/s dynamic. I firmly identify as a switch, my moods come and go, so I'm not interested in being a full time slave or pet or what have you. If that's what you want, look for someone else. I'm pretty independent and largely do my own thing. Communication and trust are massive, massive points for any relationship, let alone those of the kinky variety. I'm an open book, and expect you to ask questions on any thing you are unsure of, and I will do the same.

I love games, both on my PC and on the table through board games, card games or table top. I am a massive, unapologetic nerd. I'm trying to get more into painting miniatures and terrain for such games. I used to be huge into reading as a kid, and trying to get back into it. I have a massive collection of books I need to crack open. I've recently developed an interest in discussing what makes us tick, and I'd be interested to see what your thoughts and opinions on things are, and get into the nitty gritty discussing it.

Finally, my limits and turn offs are the usual bathroom stuff, lasting harm, findom. As well as humiliation, cbt, feminization/sissification, cheating/cuckolding.

In summary, I'm looking for a girl I can trust and get intimate with, and returns my affections. Over time, we can help the other explore our kinks and fantasies, and perhaps even meet up some day.

If you're still here, thank you for taking the time to read my post. If you're interested, as long as this post is up I'm available. Even if you aren't interested, I still appreciate you getting this far through this unorganized mess. Have a wonderful evening.~

Edit: I apologize, I forgot one detail. I am not in Vegas, but a few hours north. I just listed Vegas cause it's simpler.