About me: A 27-year old PhD candidate based in upper Manhattan, living that grad school life of grading exams and hammering out research (can you Dom me harder than my dissertation already has?). I love hiking, spending time in parks, and exploring different parts of the city. I'm a big movie fan, from the highbrow classics to some atrocious, so-bad-they're-good cult treasures. My geekier interests include history, language, and data science - I love a good trivia contest! Friends tell me I'm a really good cook, but you'll just have to be the judge of that yourself :)

Vitals: 5'11", 165 lbs, bicurious but prefer dating women, academic / softboi vibes. COVID vaxxed.

Fully clothed pictures here, including a cameo from my cat: https://ibb.co/album/R3xMwq 

About you: Domme or Dommely switch, 21-31ish, living in New York City (meeting in person locally is important to me!) with nerdy interests you're willing to share with me! It's important to me that I enjoy spending time with my Domme in non-kinky settings, too. I swoon for people who are affectionate and evil in equal measure and who like to lead as much as I like to follow

I'm looking for a consistent connection, and ideally (though not necessarily) a long term relationship with D/s undertones. Submitting feels most natural for me, but I'll gladly switch roles on occasion. I've had a little prior experience with submission and I've researched even more

The spicy part: Submission lets me turn off my brain and reorients all of my priorities around following my partner and earning praise. I get butterflies thinking about kneeling adoringly before my Domme or following her on a leash. I'm highly affectionate and eager to please, and like to think of myself as a pet. I'd call myself a lite masochist (that is, it's more about the power exchange involved than the quantity of pain) who craves feeling overwhelmed with sensations/pleasure/pain. Helplessness - especially from physical restraints - is really erotic to me. If you are interested, I would gladly accept behavioral training (recognizing commands, operant or classical conditioning), as you see fit. Physical affection is important for me, so cuddly aftercare is a necessity and a pleasure. Limits include cuckolding, bodily waste, or anything that actually causes injury!

Kink is fascinating - I'd love to explore it with someone on the other side of the slash

So, if you're looking for a doting pet, a willing victim, and/or a partner in exploration, please drop me a chat or message and tell me a bit about yourself!