Hi there!

I recently moved to the Waldorf area for a job and am searching for someone to connect with for something ongoing and meaningful, but also low pressure and who understands I'll be overwhelmed with a new job. I'd like to find someone who has as high of a libido as I do... which is almost insatiable, but also someone who wants to spend some quality time together like cuddling and reading a book or exploring the area. This can be a regular play partner or a FLR, but I would like to find something with an IRL component.

I would like to find someone who wants to chat daily, who shares some interests as me (both in kink and out), and who understands and preferably shares that work can get really busy sometimes. Someone who wants to learn and embrace my passions and what makes me tick while I do the same for them. For that person you'll find I am a very good communicator, warm, affectionate, educated, way too blunt and and horny at times, usually a complete goofball, very understanding, and very eager to get to know you inside and out.

Yes, I have a really high libido, but I don't want to only talk about the dirty stuff. In a perfect world I would find a partner with some mutual interests in board games, video games, tv binges, bourbon, D&D, Marvel movies, football, camping, and cooking as me. I'd love to find someone who will hold me accountable and encourage me as I get back on my fitness journey too. Side note - I'm HWP, but I used to be an athlete (rugby) and now closer to a dad bod - I'm almost back to what I would consider an average build, then working to rebuild muscles.

I am most attracted to creative types who have things they are passionate about. I do have a preference for average/smaller body types, but other than that I am much more attracted to ones personality and how they carry themselves. If you are comfortable in who you are and willing to laugh at yourself we will probably get along. Psychology is important to me, both in kink and in life in general.

To the kink part, I have no objection to a new or experienced Domme, I'd even go as far as to say I'm a natural teacher and patient sub to help guide someone inexperienced but interested. Whether new or experienced I am looking for someone able to communicate what they like/dislike and who you they are as a dominant. As an example, if your answer to what are your kinks is "I'm down to try anything" then we are not a good fit. I'd add that I am most weak for a dominant who is playful and creative, but also has a sadistic side. I'm open to an exclusively D/s relationship or a Domme leaning switch, as I do have a side of me that I would describe as a Dominant bottom that can make for an occasional fun change of pace.

Kink specific: My top three kinks would be - Pegging/Prostate stimulation, CBT (especially ballbusting), and Tease/Denial. I also really enjoy psychological domination, impact play, bondage, piss, humiliation, cum eating, some sissification, worship, feet, sensory play, and plenty more. I like roleplaying, control, and creativity in play. I have a masochistic side once I'm in subspace. I respond very strongly to a verbal Dom/me, but equally enjoy a more gentle and encouraging Mommy type as well as a degrading but playful Sadist type, and especially someone who has moments where they can be either.

If you think you fit into that somehow message me how and we will chat more. I'm happy to share photos after a thoughtful reply, but please tell me about yourself and your interests when you respond.