I’m 24, and currently a medic in the Army. I plan on getting out after this contract, but short of getting myself kicked out, I’ll have to wait until 2026. I’m a huge nerd, so if you want me to build you a PC, I can do that. If you want to know upscaler options to play an N64 on a modern television, I can do that too (or, maybe you could use mine 👉🏻👈🏻?)
I’m a switch, although I prefer to sub. If you're a switch, I'd prefer someone who leans domme, simply for the fact that I have switched with someone before, and because they also leaned sub, they could never get back into a submissive headspace around me. Since I mostly enjoy subbing, I'd rather avoid outcomes like that lol.
I’m trans. One of the big reasons I’m in the Army still is because the Army is covering the cost of the transition (another being free college). It isn’t cheap, and I can’t afford to go into a ton of medical debt. That said, if you like women in uniform, by all means I’ll come by in mine sometime! If you don’t, then I won’t, after all, my uniform isn’t the only outfit in my wardrobe! I’m early on in my transition but I’ve been told I’m pretty and even pics of me from before the transition began got responses of “you don’t even need to boymode!”.
I’m a bit worried about going out and about fully femme presenting but I have in the past, and it’s mostly about location and who I’m with. Essentially, until I'm passing, in public I'll usually boymode. Because of these things, I find that usually bi and pan women have the most comfort with me, but if any lesbians are interested I certainly won’t complain! It’s certainly happened in the past!
My current plan after getting out of the Army is to study Computer Engineering. My ideal end goal would be to work in the gaming industry, and particularly in game design. The reason why I’d be studying CE when the area I’d like to focus on isn’t game DEV is that the games I want to make will likely start off being made by myself, and since the area I have the least experience in would be the dev side of things, I’d study that to become well rounded enough to make a game on my own. I also think that of the degrees relevant to the industry, that one would likely be a safe bet for a job after college.
To know a bit about what I look like, I’m 5’7, I have short blonde hair (that I’d love to grow out when I can), blue eyes, and I’m white. My build has a bit of muscle, a bit of fat, but I’m obviously in good enough shape for work. Honestly, the only reason I’m not pasty as hell is because my job has me in the sun a lot, and honestly, I’ll probably be pale as hell once I’m out of the Army, since I mainly prefer indoor activities. I don’t have a total aversion to being outside (I’ve slept in the dirt, so obviously), but I love so many things that involve being inside that going outside would probably be for something I’m invited to do as opposed to my idea (except for renfest for example).
I love anime, reading, video games (obviously lol), tv in general, computer hardware, the idea of cozying up in a tent with a SO, cuddling, rain, cats, trying new food (I’m a bit picky about some things but I’m actively pushing myself to try more as time goes on, I promise, I’ve made a LOT of progress!), and hopefully someday, YOU!
I’m TERRIFIED of bugs (mainly spiders and anything that flies), and while I’m okay being NEAR domesticated snakes in cages, never push me to hold one please, I’m a big baby about it. Maybe someday but that day is NOT today.
I’ve been told my vibe is that of a golden retriever PUPPY specifically (especially if I’m drunk, in which case I’m told I’m super endearing and sweet). I’ve also heard I am the best hugger around, so come find out for yourself or something maybe?
In terms of the SPICY stuff-
My kinks are fairly standard. They'd include but are not limited to: Body worship, facesitting, praise, edging, bondage, spanking, hypnotism, primal/prey, overstimulating, tease & denial, chastity, pegging, cnc, and probably a lot that I'm forgetting. If you have something in mind, feel free to ask and I'll let you know how I feel about it!
My limits are pretty normal generally I'd say.
Soft: Public, scat, extreme pain, blood, extreme/ mean degradation involving my insecurities, cuckolding, bugs, snakes, anything negatively affecting my job/livelihood
Hard: Vomit, animals, pretty much anything fairly universally agreed to be extremely unethical, permanent damage
Things in the soft category are things I might be open to but we would really need to have good communication to make it work, and that's just to see if I'd feel okay trying a first time. I do want to make a distinction that while I don't like cuckolding, I am open to poly. I can elaborate on that if you want but I feel like this post has been pretty long already, so anything else you want to know, I'll just wait until I'm asked lol.
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