Hey there!

Before I start the post I would like to ask to please respect the effort I put into this post and into the chat we might have, and be honest and straight. I understand if I am not what you are looking for, but ghosting is not something I appreciate.

I'm Alex and I am looking for a Domme I can get to know well, and I am potentially open for in-person after spending some time online. I'd like to emphasize that I'm looking to make a connection with someone I can trust. I'm inexperienced IRL, so I want to do this with someone I feel comfortable with. Ideally long-term play partners, will also consider short-term, but getting to know each other first is a must for me. I am not ready to say if I want this to be a serious flr relationship or not, who knows how life and our needs will evolve, so I do not want to "stamp" my post with this expectation.

I'm an initially shy guy who's as friendly as he is kinky. I'm a huge nerd with a love of all kinds of philosophies, political theories, music, history, science and games, I enjoy exchanging knowledge with friends, and will gladly get into talks about topics I'm passionate about.

My hobbies include going to theatres, reading, playing some history or well established fantasy games, occasionally playing sports with friends, and learning about everything and as much as I can. I also like spending my time writing and painting, a sort of catharsis for my soul.

I am working in the fashion industry, and while I like the job I'm not the best in handling the internal game of thrones politics. At the same time I am finishing my part time studies on history and politics, because why not, a subject that will bring me no income or security in the future. I already studied two degrees, one in music and one in environmental management, and I plan to get a master's in theology (although an atheist) after finishing history. I am slim and fit, medium height (173cm), nice beard, dark haired, with quite a bit of fur (not I'm looking for a Domme who is who has these traits:

-emotional maturity

-intelligent and open-minded

-understanding and calm especially at the beginning. I'm not gonna submit to you just because you demand it from the second text you send.

-over 18 of course.

I would prefer a local Domme close to my time zone (UK/EU). If you are from any other part of the world, and you are interested please don't hesitate. Who knows when you might visit UK or I might visit your country. What I mean is, I'm willing to make an exception for the right Domme, as most importantly it's the mental connection that is the most important for me.

I'm still new to the practice IRL, so if things come to that, I'm looking for someone on the gentler side of dominance at least for the begining. I am a fast learner but I do require some patience and understanding along with guidance.

I have plenty of kink knowledge and some experience from online, so I'm not completely new. I will disclose my kinklist in private but some of my favorites include pegging and anal play (never tried with a Domme), humiliation, orgasm control/denial and a degree of petplay. My hard limits are anything illegal, extreme pain, extreme sadism, scat, and social suicide.

If you've read this far and you're still interested, then please send me a DM through Reddit with your name, general location, Domme style, and a few of your interests! You don't need to send a photo immediately, but if we get along then I'll probably ask for one, as I will provide one as well. It's just much needed safety and discretion, as I spent so much time chatting with fake Dommes. I tend to respond fairly quickly, but may take an hour or two to initially get back to you depending on the day.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you