Hello! I’m a kind, generous, playful and curious boy looking for a long term partner who is firm, thoughtful, kinky and assertive with a playful side.

First of all I’ll say that I’m after a romantic relationship not just a D/s dynamic. So if you’re just looking for short term then probably best to skip me. Also I enjoy a bit of role reversal and I'm not too into gender norms in case that's not your thing no problem.

I currently live in Edinburgh but I'm planning on moving to London or the South of England soon.

I have a fair amount of hobbies and interests including: painting, playing music, games, growing plants, cycling and more. I particularly love to explore nature, be it a wild beach or a forest where I can get lost and collect things. However I also love to get cosy in front of a good movie, game or whatever rubbish I am currently watching. I'm a bit of a film nerd and if you get me started it can be hard to shut me up. It would great if we shared a few similar interests, especially if you enjoy the outdoors or being active.

I’m slim/athletic, grey/blue eyes with brown hair. Here's a couple of pics of me one semi NSFW https://imgur.com/a/zhv2ZfR I'm 5'6 or 168cm but I don't mind how tall you are I like being small. If you're insecure I can wear some heels...

As I said I’m after a relationship and I want in person so ideally you live in the U.K. or Europe but I may be open to other places as finding my person has been hard as I find I don't fit into the traditional social norms. I’m also looking for a new job (I still work I just want to do something different) so location is flexible. And most of the dominant people seem to live abroad which is not fair if you ask me!

I am attracted to a wide range of appearances, what I’m mostly attracted to is someone who is confident and assertive but doesn't take things too seriously. I prefer someone at least around my age or older but am a bit flexible on this (25-45). I want a partner who will get competitive over a board game one moment and teasing me the next (I might tease you back). It’s important to me that we can have fun and laugh together, and be supportive of each other. I may be submissive but I’m a strong person who is very supportive of the people I care about. Oh and one last thing my politics are quite left wing so if you’re a bigot or anything like that it probably won’t work out sorry. I don't mind disagreeing on the little things but when it comes to big matters it's a problem.

When it comes to kinks I’m into a fair bit but the main ones are: bondage, spanking, lingerie, chastity/orgasm control and denial, pegging and teasing. I've not tried all of these yet but would like to explore. Something that really excites me is seeing the glee in my partners face when they do things to me. I don’t know what the word for that is though, maybe it can be classed as sadistic. I'm curious about a lot more such as tickling or pet play so feel free to ask me more if you’re comfortable. My limits are anything illegal, toilet play and blood.

I also have a few love languages, I love to give thoughtful gifts, unique compliments and acts of service like making food (although I rarely cook for other people as I worry they might not like it). Physical touch is another big favourite of mine so if you like to grope your partner then I'm in luck.

Thanks for reading, if you think we might be a good match then please send me a message, I’m easy to talk to, the only scary thing about me is how bad my jokes are. However please don't expect me to call you mistress or dive into things straight away, treat me like a person and I will treat you the same.