I'm looking for a communicative, patient dominant. Experience (as I dont have a lot) isn't relevant but I'm not looking just for short term and would hopefully like to make it permanent.

You should be in Denmark or Europe as I'm not looking for a permanent online d/s relationship and would eventually like to meet up.

Personality me:

Mischeavious, quick thinking and deeply retrospective. Somewhat dry and teasing sense of humour. Definitely a bit shy and reserved IRL.

Introverted by trying to be more outgoing, especially socially but also fitness-wise. Vanilla me:

Software engineer by trade, aka programming. I love to ride my gravel bike for long trips and eventually would like to do long range touring. Getting into hiking, with some pan groups :).

I'm learning how to make bags, collars and fetish items in leather, which is really fun.

Have a cute cat, called Mumbles.

Physically, I'm very tradtionally masc - beard, not much hair on top and fair amount of body hair (no problem removing it per preferences)

Kinky me:

As a submissive, I'm (not) hesitant to say I've got a bratty streak, but I also love seeing my dom/me satisfied and happy :D.

Fulfilling my dom/mes kinks and fetishes is something I've really come to appreciate—I guess that means I've got a kink dispensing kink?

I enjoy a really verbal and physically close style of domming, where there is a lot of communication either via talking or hands and body (or both). Although I'm not great with pain, I like being bitten, scratched and spanked. I find it much easier to deal with, and enjoy, more rough styles (flogging, caning, etc.) of d/s when I have a dom/me I can really connect to on a physical level. Bondage, restraints and ropes is like no other and something I want to get really into, as the feeling of helplessness is really comforting (hard to describe).

I dont have years of experience, although I am eager to learn and try different things.

Quick but not exhaustive kink list: - buttslut (pegging, bigger toys etc), - slight oral fixation (my mouth, you), - bondage, - biting / scratching / marking, - spanking, and slightly masochistic but lowish painthreshold - ownership, collars and petplay

limits: - baby / diapers stuff, scat, people who cant communicate,

If you got this far, please send me a sfw photo of you (if you're comfortable with that of course), I will send one or two of me.

Please open your message with an answer to: if you could pick a super power, what would it be and why?

Also please tell me about yourself - a hi or a hello is not a great opener.