Hi, I have posted here before and I have had trouble finding someone truly like minded, so I am going to try being as descriptive and direct as possible to hopefully find someone who really resonates with this. I am a lifelong hopeless romantic and I believe in the idea of a perfect match. I want someone who sees the indescribable beauty in a relationship.
Outside of kink I am a really normal, well-mannered and well-adjusted guy. No one would ever guess that since I was a kid I was having depraved fantasies of my crushes doing unspeakable things to me. I discovered the concept of an FLR when I was around 16, and I knew IMMEDIATELY that this was the lifestyle I not only wanted but needed. I am attracted to bossy and aggressive women, but I also crave for them to have some kind of sweet spot for me, and actually care for me.
What I want is to find someone that will allow me to make her my total Princess / Queen, to completely simp over her as she willingly feeds into this and makes me wrapped around her finger. I love the type of woman who carries a natural talent for control, someone intelligent and knows that her allure is so powerful that it can be used to make someone like me totally helpless to it. I know kink should have healthy limits, but I have always craved (and been jealous of others experiencing) something a little more real. If it were possible to legally enslaved to someone, knowing myself, I know that is inevitably exactly where I would find myself. I am just too curious to avoid it, thats why its so important to find the right person to devote myself to. I have had dreams of my future partner taking total control of the finances, only giving me an allowance as she sees fit, and keeping close tabs on me - I see this as affection. A deep part of me craves the security of being controlled. I want to be mentally and physically addicted to you, so attached that I cant see life without you. I have so much love inside of me that this feels like the natural expression. Some aspects of kink that interest me on a deeper level relate to deep intimate bonding, being hypnotized by my intense love for you, your voice, your eyes, your scent, feeling incapable of resisting your beauty. I know with someone who knew how to push my buttons I would be truly incapable of resisting, reducing me to a helpless pet with the right words or actions.
It's no secret that a lot of women have experienced relationships like this throughout history, where they experience being "taken", forced (hopefully consensually), dominated, and brought to an extremely submissive headspace by their aggressive/dominant partners. I simply want the role reversed version of that, it absolutely kills me that its so rare/taboo. To paint an illicit picture of what I long for - in the same way that some submissive girls want to be aggressively fucked roughly, experiencing a tangible loss of control to someone elses aggression - I viscerally crave a dominant woman to forcefully pin me down and force her nipple into my mouth or tackling me, sitting on my face or initiating sex, not taking no for an answer and being very aggressive. The way some women get to experience being objectified and turned into a mindless pet, I want to sit collared next to a powerful woman.
What I am hoping for is to find a kind woman who identifies as a Mommy, but also enjoys service submission, submissive training, and FLR dynamics. Beyond this dynamic, I romanticize the idea of romance, and I want to have a beautiful adventurous relationship that seems exceeds fiction. If this resonated with you please reach out, and I will share a picture of myself (hoping for the same in return).
Other Kinks: MDLB - TPE - Regression - Chastity - Behavioral Training
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Hard Limits: - bodily waste / blood - blood / permanent harm / extreme pain - sounding
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