Hello there 👋

I’m an Irish fella with limited bdsm experience looking to make a bdsm friend or maybe even find a partner . I have limited experience with bdsm irl but enough to know about myself and what I am looking for. I’m not going to write a laundry list of things I’d like done to me or would like to do for a dom as I think this is something that is better to unravel naturally between two people with a connection . What I will say is that I am 100% submissive and a little bit masochistic sexually with a broad interest across many different aspects of bdsm. Not to be mistaken for lazy, I very much enjoy playing my part.

Having said that I am definitely not submissive outside of my sexuality … in fact I’m quite assured of myself and headstrong and strive to be what I consider for myself to be a good man and a provider. I'm definately not the type to immediately start grovelling to any girl because they give me a modicum of attention, or call themselves a dom. Not my style. Although, I would like to foster a relationship where I can be that vulnerable.

As I said before I'm looking for friends, or maybe more! I'm only just starting to allow myself to dip my toes into the waters of the bdsm world and would like somebody to do it with. I have never been to any BDSM events irl but I intend to start going to some in the coming months and would love to get to know somebody and maybe participate in some events with them, I think that would be alot of fun.

Some things about me personally: I'm a normal(ish) fella. Bit weird some might say I'm sure but that's okay. I'm tall-ish and fit-ish, on the thinner side. I like hiking, and travelling to beautiful locations for outdoor excursions. I like going to music events, typically more lowkey acts that i'm interested in and definately hard dance dj's. I'm a student currently at the tail end of finishing my thesis so kept pretty busy atm. I'm based in Ireland but would be down to go to the UK for events or meets if I get to know somebody, as there seems to be a more active bdsm scene in the UK. I'd say I'm pretty chill and always try to find some good or comedy in every situation. Life is too short to take everything so seriously.

If you feel we could click drop me a message, I'm okay with swapping pics etc. as long as you don't give off bot vibes. GL to all on their search for happiness.