Hi! My name is A and I’m looking to find a new pet I want to keep!

About Me:

I'm a 36 year old, female, INFP homebody who’s hoping to find a meaningful IRL connection. 

Currently I work as an erotic author and creator, and dedicate myself to that full time. In my free time I like to read, play board games, go to trivia nights, and travel as much as I can - though you’re more likely to find me going to the mountains or a city, vs a beach vacation. I love international travel and want to see the world!

I am a bit neuro-spicy and two of my special interests include Disney and Theme Parks more generally. I enjoy browsing antique and thrift stores. I like a good irl ghost/paranormal story, but hate horror movies. My spotify is filled with loads of kpop, jpop/jrock, and many different podcasts. Recently, I’ve been watching lots of youtube and anime, and I know it would be better if I had a cat boy curled up in my lap. 

Physically, I am 5'4, with long (mostly brown) hair, and pale skin. I have an athletic build, on the slim side, and like to keep physically fit - I workout whenever I can, and enjoy skiing in the winter. I may be small in stature, but I can bend any man to my will. 

I am also the proud owner of one real animal cat who I rescued as a kitten - he just turned 8 and I dare you to prove that you’re cuter than him.

About me NSFW:

I’ve always been a Domme - there’s just something in me that always knew where a man’s place should be.

I enjoy being fun, playful, creative and I have plenty of experience with handling men’s bodies and minds. I consider myself a demisexual gentle domme, and believe the dom/sub dynamic is one that’s both exciting and ultimately nurturing to make a relationship better at its core.

• My kinks include: FLR, Pegging, JOI, CEI, Gender play/Feminization, ForcedBi play, and breeding you like a seahorse. Basically, the whole of r/gentlefemdom is really hot!
• Limits: Self harm, harsh pain, scat/bathroom play of any kind

These are my main kinks and limits, but I am sure there are more not listed. Feel free to tell me your own!

What I’m looking for:

Serious dating that leads to something long term. 

Someone who is local, or willing to travel to see each other in person regularly. 

Monogamous, DINK, BDSM dynamic that isn’t TPE, but is mostly FLR.

I am looking for a fully fledged relationship with a partner who wants to be my SO and also enjoys getting bread like a seahorse. ie: Partner in the streets, kink in the sheets. We don’t have to be perfectly matched in kink, but it would be hotter if you enjoy anal play/getting fucked.

About You:

• Masc leaning identity preferred -- Open to a variety of sexualities (including, but not limited to: straight, bi, pan, and demi) 
• Single and looking for a monogamous relationship
• Between the ages of 32 and 40
• Relatively local or willing to travel for a LTR
• DINK-orientated
• You don’t have to be experienced with Femdom but you should have a healthy and realistic view about femdom and BDSM dynamics

If you’re ready to win over a domme who likes breeding men like seahorses (because I absolutely will if things go well), send me a DM with a link to your favorite reddit post, and tell me how tall you are when standing vs when you’re on your knees -- along with your age and location. I look forward to hearing from you!