About Me

I enjoy reading, sports, cooking a week's worth of food, meditation, hanging out with friends, and walking my dog. I am a single father so much of my time is spent doing that.

For work, I'm a software-engineer & I really enjoy getting deep into complicated systems. I'm pretty adventurous, which includes trying anything on the menu at a restaurant, doing crazy trips (Burning Man), and this :) -- amongst other things.

Height, weight, body type information: 5 ft 10, 205lbs, brown hard, green eyes, fit strong upper body dad bod type with maybe an extra beer or two around the middle depending on the day of the week you catch me.

My Ideal Domme

Someone who is into this for the fun and connection it can bring to both. Someone who knows what they want. Although I would love to be in a 24/7 relationship but because of my corporate job and vanilla friends and family, I cannot manage it. I would like my femdom relationship to be private. I want someone who understands it and wants it or is okay with it at least.

My Femdom Preferences

• emotional maturity
• intelligent and open-minded
• single (not looking for poly right now)
• between 25 and 45 years old

NSFW interests: I consider myself a submissive. I do have this dominance itch somewhere in me but it's not a big deal. I don't have any experience as a dom anyways. I do have some experience as a sub but I am still in the process of exploring myself. Below are some of the fetish which I know that I crave:

• TPE: My primary fetish is total power exchange. I like to be helpless and at the mercy of my partner. I enjoy it when she abuses her authority over me.
• Possession: I want to be yours. I want you to tell me that I am your property and as such, you can do anything to me and there is nothing I can do to stop you.
• Making her happy: I want to make you happy. That's the primary goal of the play for me. Making you happy makes me happy. I want to suffer for you knowing that my suffering is bringing you joy. Your pleasure in turn gives me pleasure.

Below is the list of some of the BDSM activities which I enjoy during the play:

• Bondage
• Orgasm control
• Anal play
• Pegging
• Light humiliation
• Light CBT
• Nipple torture
• I have experienced audio hypnosis before and that was a uniquely wild experience. I was able to orgasm hands-free, if that interests you.

Some of the limits which I have are cuckolding, scat, bestiality, permanent injuries, anything public (although subtle public play is fine as long as it is hidden from public view) etc. This list may grow as I am still exploring.

Next Steps

Thank you for taking the time to read this far. If my ad resonates with you and you are looking for someone like me, please message me and I would highly appreciate it if you could provide some info about you, why you liked my "personal" and your favorite movie.