Hello!

After a while of feeling content by myself I've found myself looking for companionship, and increasingly submissive leaning as well lmao. So to reddit I come, hoping to find my person.

About me:

As the title mentions I'm a fairly nerdy guy living in Arlington Virginia. Some of my hobbies include video games (either alone or over with friends), reading, movies/anime, MTG, DnD (been far too long), and do love board games but I'm not able to play them nearly enough. I love Tolkien and I am very passionate about it but in a good-natured way, along with star wars and just all things sci fi and fantasy. I am a metalhead when it comes to music though I can listen to almost anything, with Sabaton being my favorite band and I have been commonly referred to as a paladin. I work in tech (go figure), and I do have a college degree. I'm 5'10 and heavier than I want to be but think I wear it well, pic on profile, though you can't see the nice beard and shaved head. Trying to slowly cut down but I don't think I ever want to be truly skinny, so dad bod is def apt to describe me. I do not smoke anything and drink socially. DDF.

My Ideal Domme:

I am looking for someone nearby within the general metro range of the DMV. Ideal age range would be 22-30, though I am flexible on this to an extent. No exact requirements on body type, just be healthy or working towards it, though I will say I am more than fine with someone taller than I am, and I am more of a boobs guy. I am looking for a nerd like me, someone I can cuddle with and watch movies and shows, along with someone warm and kind. Play coop games together (BG3 maybe) and maybe ren faire dates. Someone I can just gush about whatever I'm playing and then listen to them gush about something along with lots and lots of cuddling. Please do not be a smoker and please be ddf.

My Femdom Preferences:

I want to preface and say I'm not looking for a dynamic outside of the bedroom, I want someone I can be a partner to and then have an amazing time in bed with. I know am for sure looking for a mommy dom/ gentle domme, someone more nurturing and sweet, maybe with the occasional harder domme tendencies to shake things up. My primary kinks as I know them now would be lingerie/stockings, boots, edging, joi, affection, praise, and anr/breast play. I do want to try pegging and face sitting but have no experience in either right now. This would be a monogamish at most, I have no interest in going truly poly and anything would have to be heavily discussed. For limits it would be the standard gambit of blood and bathroom stuff, along with choking and age regression included. While I was in one short lived relationship with a dynamic I am a newbie and I am interested in exploring more kinks.

Next steps:

If I have caught your interest at all, which I hope I have, shoot me a message! I will want to verify using a video call before anything nsfw happens or before we plan any physical dates.

Hope to be hearing from you!