Hey all. Giving it another try not losing hope just yet :)

When did I realize I was a Domme? I knew all along and the signs were glaringly obvious but it took maturing and figuring out what I actually want to truly embrace being a Domme. If you decide to message me, let me know how you discovered you were submissive and whether you have any shame associated with it.

I'm not into discussing kinks right away AND I take my time before I ask someone to be my sub but I'll say that I'm NOT gentle (although I do like some aspects of it). Yes that includes inflicting pain, humiliation, and degradation. But I'm definitely not into cuckolding and sissification (hard limits). Just to save everyone some time.

I'm looking for an actual meaningful relationship, not just a casual dynamic. I know it's hard finding someone online but I did read about a few success stories of people finding love on reddit so that keeps me going :)

I'm potentially open to relocating if the connection is incredible, but not any time soon (at least not in the next year), so that's why I'm looking online only for now. And finding subs locally has also been challenging for various reasons.

A bit about me:

I'm an Asian woman, I love animals, I love philosophical discussions, I like reading, and I like spending time with my family. I like going on long walks with my doggie and admiring nature. I also love stand up comedy, listening to podcasts, and rap music. I like exchanging SFW pics of cooking, scenery, memes, songs, etc. I appreciate when someone wants to share stuff with me.

I work from home and I can usually chat throughout the day. I'll communicate if I'm busy with something and I expect the same level of communication too.

A bit about who I'm looking for:

28-40. The age limits are firm with 1 year leeway (I will require age verification and will provide one myself).

Someone who isn't just fantasy obsessed and only knows about Femdom through porn 😁

Someone with a sense of humour (I like roasting and joking around), someone with a silly side

This might be random but someone with a deep voice (I have a deeper voice for a woman too so deep voices are hot to me). But the voice thing isn't a requirement, just something nice to have

Someone who is actually interested in asking me questions about myself as opposed to repeating what I just asked (a MAJOR turn off when I'm the one "interviewing")

Someone who is proactive and anticipates my needs as I anticipate theirs.

DISCLAIMER:

I won't reply to low effort messages, nudes, blank or new profiles. Include a photo of your face and I will gladly do the same.

I'm monogamous. So I won't engage with married or poly people.

I absolutely do require age (with identifying info redacted) and photo verification. I'll gladly do the same. I've come across many people who were hiding something and were dishonest with me so this is a very important part right here.

Thanks for reading my post. Cheers :)