Hello again! It's been a while but this overly-verbose sub is back again, giving things another shot. Because why not, right?

I know you're all tired of no-effort posts and messages making demands, using honorifics, asking you to be a kinky vending machine, all while giving nothing back and not even trying to get to know you as a person. Why wouldn't you be? Hopefully this post is a breath of fresh air and, at minimum, gives you a good chuckle. Life's too short not to laugh!😂

I'm certainly not here to make demands. Why would a sub demand anything anyway? I’d like to give you a look into who I am though and maybe you’ll see someone you think could be a good match for you. That’s the point of all this endless scrolling, right?

Professionals, pay-to-play, etc: I appreciate the hustle, ladies, I truly do. However, that's not what I'm looking for. Best of luck to you though!

Who Am I?

For starters, I’m a typical guy in Colorado, near Denver. There are a couple of photos here and here.

Things I enjoy:

• Fitness
• Being outside
• Animals (I'll send you cat pictures)
• Fun cocktails
• Memes
• Books
• Making lists, apparently

I have a full-time job, live alone, and have a pretty flexible schedule and availability, if you get my drift. I have considerable experience in the kink lifestyle and am not new to being a sub. There are some additional details in the about me post but I’ll try to cover some of it here so you don’t have to switch screens. We all know the mobile app is trash.

Curiosity, exploration, and open-mindedness are all important parts of my life and how I view the world. I'm a lifelong learner and big on asking questions, both in the literal sense and not-so-literal sense. I enjoy novel experiences and keeping an open-mind when trying new things.

I can be an over-communicator, can you tell? I'm excited about pleasing my partner! My love languages are physical touch and quality time and I enjoy sharing that with a partner. I like being open and able to tell my Domme exactly how I'm feeling through the day. This helps get me more into the submissive space, especially if my Domme enjoys the openness of my thoughts to her. I find pleasure in getting to know everything about the person I'm with so I can anticipate their needs and help make them happy! I appreciate when my she knows me well too and knows just how to push my limits and buttons.

Kinky Stuff

Did your eyes go here first? I love that your mind is in the gutter.

I’m definitely not a brat. I do like good banter/conversation back and forth and can be excited or a little clingy in the beginning. I enjoy interacting with my Domme, including about more than just the kink side of life. I strive to make my Domme proud of me and to make sure she comes (cums) first. I want to be able to laugh and have fun even if play may not work out every time.

As far as kinks go, I have a short list in the about me post. However, orgasm control / denial are top for me. I find being denied helps me really get into the mental state and be a lovely, desperate, pliable sub for my Domme.

I'm always open and receptive to having a discussion about specific kinks or ideas!

About You

Probably around ages 30-55 (but I'm flexible). You're communicative, open minded, and enjoy having fun as well as being kinky. You really care about getting to know your sub and forming a deeper dynamic and relationship. Consent, discretion, and privacy are top of mind for you when it comes to the D/s lifestyle.

You love controlling your sub and turning them into a desperate puddle willing to do anything for you. You're a huge fan of chastity as well as orgasm control/denial. Even better if you like having fun and tormenting your sub in semi-public (but discreet) situations.

What kind of Domme would be a good fit for me? Probably more of a gentle Domme. Pain does nothing for me but I can endure some for my Domme. I’m looking for someone who wants to get to know me and who actually has the time and desire for building a dynamic. Ideally this would end up being something long-term like an actual relationship, especially if we’re both local.

I’d love to hear more about you and your ideal dynamic if you decide to reach out! Let’s be honest, this is a M4F post so it isn’t like my inbox will be flooded 😂. Shoot your shot! Reddit Chat is terrible so, instead, send me a message!

I'm happy to respond to all genuine messages / chats.