I’ll put my picture first https://imgur.com/a/XwCeJrX Hi so I’ll tell you about my interests and hobbies. Typically I enjoy chilling at home watching anime/cartoons, playing games, or catching up on hour long video essays of various topics. My favorite genre is definitely fantasy! Playing TTRPG’s, reading books, and some warhammer miniatures are some of my other hobbies. I also enjoy finding the best food spots in town. I like dressing nice and taking care of my appearance I have sort of preppy aesthetic going for me. I’m most social when I know I can be myself around someone. People tell me I’m a positive person and I would agree I keep a optimistic attitude. To be fair I have an easier time of thinking like this though because I’ve had a pretty lucky life so far. A lifelong dream of mine is to hike the pacific coast trail. 5 months from Mexico to Canada. It always sounded like the adventure of a lifetime and has inspired my imagination for awhile now. I was born in California so that is also relevant.
As I mentioned in the title I’m semi experienced. I haven’t had a long term Domme but have had experiences with vanilla partners some online play and I belonged to a kink dungeon in the past that I found through munches on fetlife. I was able to get some experience and knowledge from the community there. They had workshops and themed nights with a femdom night every week. It didn’t end up with anything serious or long term though. The main reason being the age range was all older than me (40s) not that that’s bad I just would prefer a significant other to be relative in age to me. I didn’t find a long term monogamous partner but I did get some experience and knowledge. Stopped going a year or so ago after some drama I wasn’t a part of made the vibe bleh which was a bummer.
I hope to form a relationship with a kinky individual. Someone who’s interested in the same things I am or is interested in hearing me tell you all about them. Someone to watch shows together over discord. Something where we can both hang out in ways that aren’t just sexual. If your personality is more on the take charge side of things that’s great too. I really appreciate having someone to ask for advice. We can discuss kinks further down the line. I feel like the tone/ vibe of a dynamic are more important than the actions themselves but if having someone eating you out for hours under your desk sounds fun to you too maybe send a message because that’s always been my dream. Please don’t message me if all you plan to do is start giving me commands before we’ve actually gotten to know each other. Hopefully we can call after a bit of messaging and maybe have a little date where we watch something together over call. I read this post a while ago and just thought it was the dream domestic situation minus a few details switched around so I thought I’d include it at the end https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/s/kG721I9KyM
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