Disclaimer - This is a long post with no TL:DR so suck it up, I guess. I have years of experience(unless I state otherwise) in everything I’ll be talking about, I’m not just going into the heavy kinks blindly. Ideally, you have experience in being a masochist since I don’t really know how to teach you to become one. This will be online with a possibility to meet up with the right person. I’m attracted to more than one gender so anyone can reply to this. Please be legal and not more than 60.

About me

Hello. I’m a 22 years old cis female, 5’4, HWP but curvy. I’m a student but I also have an office job(I mostly wear suit pants and heels if you like that sort of thing). I’ve been called a mean person a lot but I think I’m just outspoken, plain and direct. I have no soft, delicate bone in my body so if you’re looking for a mommy/gentle femdom, this isn’t for you. I’m very ambitious, my biggest goal is to become a director in the company I work for(fingers crossed). Sarcasm is my go-to humour, I go along well with people that can take a joke and are really confident with themselves as a person.

I carry myself with dignity, pride, spite, disdain, service-worker fake smiles and contempt. I enjoy reading, writing, listening to music, taking lollies from kids and fine dining when I can. When I read, I enjoy the slow burn and I’d love to include that in a new dynamic. Let’s get excited to message each other. Let’s re-read messages because it sounded like a teasing, sexual innuendo the first time. My love language is words of affirmation, I enjoy my words saying a lot and going a long way for my pet - I guess that’s my own way of showing care. The weirdest thing that makes me happy is receiving flowers, I see it as a beautiful form of devotion. I’m romantically monogamous(Phrasing it this way since cucking is something I enjoy doing) but I don’t mind if you’re not. I enjoy being called my Lady so include that in your message to me.

How I like to dominate

If you figured out that I’m a sadist, you’re smart(yay). I’m sadistic in all the ways. I think sadism is a spectrum and most people only encounter the I like whipping until blood comes out kind. I enjoy the psychological/emotional aspect of sadism. I want to control my person like a puppet, I want them putty in my arms and say “yes, I trust you” while being scared of what’s in store for them. I’ve been told that my kindness is scary and usually comes with a hidden meaning behind it. I like the idea of giving you whiplash because I’m suddenly kind and caring, leaving you guessing and thinking of what I’m planning.

I enjoy getting pleasure from giving my pet deep humiliation whether it comes from laughing at the size of your sexual organ, cuckolding you while you’re not allowed to have sex, having you all dressed up as a maid attending to my whims. Getting my pet do the most absurd things is so funny. I am non sexual with my subs so if that’s something you need/require, it won’t work out. I do enjoy teasing and prolonging your chastity days whether it’s because you’ve been doing so good/bad. Over the years, I’ve grown my collection of toys so it would be nice to have someone to use it on.

I enjoy harder kinks like watersports, deep humiliation, blackmail(not a lot of experience with this so I’m willing to compromise if it’s a hard limit for you), 24/7 chastity and TPE, scat, findom*, cbt. My other kinks include facesitting, whipping, chastity, cuckolding, orgasm denial and torture, hypnosis and trigger words, food, sleep and wardrobe control, feet/ass/heel worship, groping, CFNM etc.

My limits include anything non consensual, anything involving kids and animals, cuts and blood, permanent damage(mental, physical, emotional and financial).

About you

(I’m assuming you’re sick of reading the sheer amount of “I’s” I’ve written so you can read about You now). You’re uxorious, extroverted, possibly asexual(not a requirement), well-spoken, got your life together. Preferably, you’re a businessman in a suit. You wear your heart on your sleeve and crave attention from your Lady. You know how to cook and bake(Aprons on guys are so freaking sexy and I don’t know how to cook). You can start up a conversation, very confident, think of yourself as a service sub and an overall himbo. There’s nothing hotter than a person who is intelligent and knowledgeable about fine wine and dining. Basically, if you get along well with other people then you’re the one I’m looking for!

If this post is still up, then I'm still looking. Send me a message about you as a person, as a sub and the weirdest thing that makes you happy. I will not start domming you immediately, talk to me with respect and as a human but not as your Domme. I'm verified but willing to share photos after some days of talking.

*Findom - This is a kink that’s meant to be fun and not destructive to your life/mental health. Please don’t try to sell your house for me.