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26 [F4M] #online Domme-leaning switch looking for her sub-leaning counterpart.
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idefkrnm is a female age 26 looking for a male in online
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The SFW:

Hi! My nameā€™s Rinnie (: Iā€™m 26, 5ā€™4, 120 pounds.

Ideally, Iā€™m looking for a long-term kinky friends with benefits situation, but I would be delighted if being more serious one day was on the table.

More important than being kinky-compatible is being friendly-compatible. If we canā€™t just sit and talk and hang out as friends non-sexually, it wonā€™t work. Iā€™m not a kink dispenser, and I donā€™t expect you to be one either. I want to get to know you as a person, and would hope that youā€™d want to genuinely get to know me as well.

I have many interests outside of kink, hopefully some that we can relate on. I love reading, writing, playing video games. The only TV I really like is trashy reality shows, but Breaking Bad is a hyperfixation/comfort show for me that I can talk about for hours. Iā€™m a music collector, I listen to everything from hypercunt bubblegum pop to German death metal to 1400s choir music. YouTube, too, I love video essays covering all sorts of topics.

Additionally, I am poly. I currently have two other partners, who are also with each other. Likewise, I would never expect you to be monogomous to me (we can talk about that more in the NSFW sectionā€¦) unless explicitly discussed because it is something we both wanted.

Personally, Iā€™m into subs who are taller and weigh more than I do. Iā€™m not into people who are younger than I am. My ideal age range is 30-35, but I will not go younger than 27.

I think thatā€™s a good enough intro for the safe stuff, wanna go to the naughty zone?

The NSFW:

Iā€™m going to be open and say that Iā€™ve only been domming sparsely for the past year. It wasnā€™t for lack of wanting to. It was because I thought my ideal sub just did not exist until I actually met one. Clearly, it did not work out. But I know theyā€™re out there, and as difficult as it is for me to explain what I like, Iā€™m going to try.

In simple terms, I like the Dom who only subs for me. Sure, sometimes I might give him control and let him have fun and take over. Sometimes I might let him even keep it for the whole interaction. But when push comes to shove, when I snap my fingers and say ā€œDown, boy.ā€ heā€™s back on his knees despite his undeniable ability to overpower me both physically and emotionally, but doesnā€™t, because he knows that if he continues then Iā€™m going to safeword and leave him with blue balls.

I like the kind of sub who is a complete and total simp and hates himself for it. The kind of simp that worships me and finds me beautiful from the top of my head to literally the tips of my toes and everything in between. And likewise, I will worship him and find him handsome just the same.

I like the idea that my sub fucks or at least messes around with other women. Iā€™m really into petplay; and the idea that I get my puppy all horned up and then set him off to fuck someone else? chefā€™s kiss. I know how hot my sub is and what heā€™s capable of, why wouldnā€™t I want him to share his gifts and talents with others?

I like the kind of sub that is so desperate to see me naked that heā€™ll bark for me, just for the chance of it. Not even a solid guarantee- just an opportunity.

While Iā€™m new to this side of kink and am sure there is so much to discover that I enjoy, there are some things that I know I definitely donā€™t enjoy.

While the name ā€œmommyā€ can be discussed eventually, I have no intention of ever attaching it to an MDLB dynamic. Absolutely no shame, itā€™s just not my thing as I am a little myself. Secondly, I hate have submission just thrown at me unless weā€™ve been in it for a while. I prefer to earn your submission.

I want to be treated like a queen. But donā€™t think of yourself as the king, youā€™re more like the lead knight that Iā€™m definitely fucking and the entire kingdom knows. Because I will want people to know.

I love to show off whatā€™s mine.

Iā€™ve barely begun to scratch the surface. But best to save the majority of it for private conversations and chemistry building, right?

Anyways, hereā€™s my kinks:

  • Barking
  • Masks
  • Cockwarming
  • Soaking
  • Humiliation
  • Orgasm Control
  • Collar/Leash Play
  • Forced Stripping
  • Voyeurism
  • Praise
  • Making Out
  • Online Roleplay
  • Ownership
  • Spitplay
  • Power play
  • Rope Stuff
  • Knife play
  • Desk Pet
  • Mutual Free Use
  • CNC
  • Group Sex
  • Group CNC
  • ROMANCE (the most important one, probably)
  • Outercourse
  • Edging
  • Foot play
  • Size Difference
  • Hairjobs

My limits are:

  • Needles
  • Scat
  • People Underage or Medically/Otherwise Legally Unable to Consent
  • Racial, homophobic, xenophobic or ableist slurs from either party
  • Medical Settings

There are more to each list. As this will be switchy, of course youā€™ll get to learn my submissive kinks as well.

I hope Iā€™ve caught your attention. If youā€™re looking to learn more, please do be a good boy and reach out. Bonus points if you have a nice voice and send a voice clip, but not a requirement. If you include photos of yourself, please donā€™t show me your face. ā¤ļø

Canā€™t wait to hear from you x

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