Hello all,

I’m a submissive guy seeking to connect with a female dominant. I’m looking to find possible friendship or maybe even a play partner. I have limited experience in bdsm, having only experimented a couple of times with professional dominatrixes, which was enough to confirm the feelings I’ve always had inside me of submission and lust for devotion to a domme.

In doing this I learned some things about myself that I enjoy such as anal play, bondage, teasing/denial. Completely giving up control of my body to somebody in trust and passion. These are things that I enjoy… but far surpassing my want for these things is my need to find somebody that I can serve as a sub. Somebody I can please, how they see fit. Maybe that’s giving a nice foot rub if they are tired, maybe it’s taking a flogging if they are frustrated, giving oral or maybe it’s just doing some menial tasks so they have one less thing to worry about. I want to serve for somebody caring that can help me to learn and grow as a submissive. I want to be a canvas for their expression as a dom.

This is just my fantasy and innermost wants but I of course understand that female dominants are people too and don’t put any expectation on anybody to be this idealised fantasy femdom 24/7. I’m still a normal person (debatable actually) and am down to be chill and talk if that’s the type of person you are ☺️. I would love to meet somebody that I can link up with and go to Dublin based bdsm events such as nimhneach. This is something I’d love to do in the near future but have been a bit to shy to do on my own without knowing anybody. I’ve even ordered a nice latex outfit for it !

Anyways some more stuff about me. I’m tall and slim with some muscles but not too much. I do like to keep active. I love the serenity of nature but also love the harshness of hard dance music events. I’m a student currently finishing thesis so kept pretty busy atm. I’m typically a little shy at first but that’s only because I’m a bit of a whack job and it takes time for me to get comfortable enough to be a whack job around people.

If I am lucky enough to get any responses , please do not be offended if I ask for some kind of confirmation that you are who you say you are. There are a lot of scammers preying on subs. This is the only thing I must insist on :)

Also, no FinDom ☠️

-Plum