Greetings... I'm 37yo, white, 6' tall, 175lbs... a tall lanky guy in pretty good shape. Pansexual with a big preference towards femininity.

I've been looking for a domme and/or FLR for a few years now. I have been interested in femdom ever since I was a teenager, my first gf was pretty dominant naturally and ever since her I have craved that kind dynamic in all of my relationships, just hasn't happened for one reason or another. Now I'm specifically looking for it and forsaking all other potential partners who aren't dommes, for the time being.

I'm a creative professional living in Silver Spring, MD. I'm really into art, music, dance, stand up comedy, and creative expression of all forms. Also in to movies, video games, nature, hiking, camping etc. I'm a total goober and I'd love if you were too.

I'm the father of a really dope 14yo teenager. He stays with me on alternating weekends. He's a big boy and at this point he wants to spend less and less time with me as he is more concerned with his friends (I'm crying) but my point is -- I'm NOT looking for a stepmom for him and there's 0 pressure for you to show up for that part of my life, but it is welcomed with time and comfortability.

I'm ADHD which affects me in a pretty big way in my day to day life - but I cope well with it.

I've done a lot of inner work over the last 15 years or so and would consider myself to be highly emotionally intelligent with a high capacity to be with my own stuff, and that of others. On that note, I'm into mindfulness, yoga, conscious dance, trauma resolution (I'm trauma informed and trained in somatic experiencing and integrative breathwork) breathwork, energy healing, conscious communication and all things in the realm of spirituality and personal growth. I'm less woo woo than I used to be. More body/breath based these days but I still enjoy some crystals and a full moon ceremony like any proper witch ;P

I'm currently practicing solo ENM (emphasis on the solo) -- in committed relationships I'm monogamous, although I certainly don't expect that of my partner and would actively encourage her to see other people if she wanted to.

That being said, I have a lot of friends who are cuddle bugs and we do be cuddlin'. I won't give that up very easily but could be convinced by the right Domme if that's what she wanted.

Kink wise I'm into tease and denial, being a brat, impact, light CBT, chastity, orgasm control/edging/ruined orgasms, pegging, foot worship, body worship, cucking, bondage and service. Love to give massages and do your chores for you :)

I'm super sweet, loving and gentle as a partner... but also I'm pretty sassy with a bit of a brat streak in me. Sorry not sorry, it's fun and you know it. I'll keep that under wraps til a green light is given tho and if you don't want that as part of our play, it can be nixxed.

What I'm looking for...

Ideally I'd like to be in a long term, committed FLR. You should have a really good sense of humor, not be in a rush, enjoy outdoors adventures as much as days in binge watching movies and netflix shows. I'm not huge on going out to bars and clubs, but if you're into dancing I know the best events to go for dance. If you're into the healing arts too that's a huge plus but not a requirement. At the very least, be self aware, have clear boundaries and communicate your intentions clearly -- I will do those things as well. I tend to be in to hippy / goth chicks (still a teenage boy at heart) but I'm so open to all types as long as we can laugh and feel comfortable together.

I'm also open to something less committed than a full on FLR. A casual play partner to orchestrate some scenes with would be fantastic but I'm not at all interested in hookups or casual vanilla sex. Also open to being used for content ;p

I've got plenty of photos to send. Shoot me a message and tell me what resonates with you in my post. Or open however tf you'd like to, really. Looking forward :D