I've spent a lot of time looking for a girlfriend who might be into kink, Femdom, and D/s play, to no avail. So now, I'm going to try working backwards, by looking for someone into kink, Femdom, and D/s play who might ALSO be interested in being my girlfriend.

I want a "normal" romantic relationship that grows into a kink dynamic naturally over time. I've spent a lot of time on these personal websites watching people post ads for a partner to do a specific thing with them, and it makes me feel like I'm crazy. How can you possibly know what you want to do with someone before you get to know them, and develop the trust and rapport with them that gives whatever scene you're in with them meaning? I want to work up to a kinky relationship with someone that I know will be enthusiastically into it. Whatever "it" is, is secondary, because it will be something that we share together and naturally grow into over time. There is nothing more intimate than sharing your deepest fantasies with someone who doesn't just understand them, but understands intuitively what is so appealing about them AND WANTS TO PUSH THEM ONE STEP FURTHER.
I want a partner who can fulfill my fantasies, and whose fantasies I can fulfill for them. Someone who I admire. Someone with whom I have great interpersonal and sexual chemistry. Who will push my boundaries in the bedroom, who will support me outside of the bedroom. And someone for whom I can do the same!

I am a 32 year old STEM professional (who values his discretion) living in the Midatlantic/Northeastern US. I am financially independent, love my family, have a fulfilling career, and am expanding into my hobbies as time permits. I have a laundry list of kinks that I want to explore with the right partner, who might be you if you've made it this far.

I won't rattle off every single kink on my to-do list like this is a shopping trip, but I will say I've tried almost everything there is to try once or twice. Assume that I'm down to try almost anything more than once if you enjoy doing it. My limits are blood/scat and anything that's rightfully illegal.

If you've made it to the end, shoot me a message. I'd love to get to know you first, and eventually exchange personal contact info after we've figured out if this is what we both want.