me: https://imgur.com/a/vKAEIf9

Hello fine people of reddit! What I wrote below is my sincere hope in finding my match, someone who is respected by his family and colleagues, yet behind closed doors, a monogamous, submissive husband to me.

To start, I'm N, a 30yo civil engineer from the Philippines, weighs 52kg and is 160cm tall.

I work as a Project engineer for eight years. I supervise construction workers specializing in steel frames and precast concrete.  

I consider myself blessed. I was raised in a loving home and I experienced an enjoyable childhood.

 I am educated having graduated with honors from high school until college. Never married and do not have kids. 

Despite my busy time, I do lots of nerdy stuffs such as reading books, mostly Dystopian or light Xianxia and Wuxianovels such as Against the  Gods. I love animes and enjoy doing cosplays. I play online chess and been learning German (hopefully my 4th language).  Lately, I've been trying my hands on embroidery, patching and running.

I travelled twice internationally last year, Thailand and Indonesia. I enjoyed visiting their temples, museums, eating lots of their foods and delicacies.I hope to travel to Vietnam next. 

I do not smoke, do not drink and do not go to clubs. I consider myself an ambivert that enjoys being adventurous, yet enjoys my alone time also.

I try to do everything at least once from horseback riding, kayaking, ATV driving, wakeboarding and archery.

If you reached this, you might think.. I seem to have a lot on my plate. A career. Supportive family and friends. I'm not even ugly. What more do I need?

I want to be married and have kids. Being a natural leader made me picky in choosing my partner. I do not want a submissive husband who only knows how to massage, clean the house. I also want someone who is intelligent. Someone who is trusted and respected by his peers. Someone who excels at his work and is ambitious to earn more so he could provide for our needs and wants.

I won't be entertaining students or guys who follows lots of women in social media. The same goes to men who loves posting their naked pics and comments horny stuffs on random dominas. I prefer a man who has standards on who he wants to submit to and when he commits, will be obsessive and loyal for a lifetime. I avoid drama and I'm quite territorial.

I won't entertain men who spend a lot of time on online games nor jobless and has no dreams for his life. It's a turn off and that will bore me. I also don't like egotistical men who has the "control me and I'll be yours" mindset who requires me to leave my feminity and hopes I do not soft spots. I am not a sadist.

I prefer someone who has substance. Someone who reads and someone who I can talk to on different topics, may be on science and news, or even animes and movies, even someone I could gossip with will be fun.

What I need is someone that I can own as a whole. I want to own you in every way..financially, physically, emotionally, sexually. Besides your work, I would expect you to be attend to my needs when I return home. I'll be expecting you to plan date nights and surprises. Surprise me with a hearty meal or flowers on every important milestone. Be obsessive and clingy.

In exchange, I will be your loving dominant wife. I'll give you your life's purpose and dream. To be with someone who only looks at you and needs you in her life. I'll be pushing you to be the best version of yourself and I'll definitely be your no.1 supporter. I will be your safe haven. Someone who you can trust your secrets with and will make you feel loved and respected.

To summarize, I am not a sadistic dominatrix who finds pleasure in just hurting you. I am a gentle femdomme who prefers to be in control yet value your well-being.

And since I wanted to have kids, I would need your attactive genes. If you're 29~35, Caucasian and tall, you're definitely top of the list.

Right now, I'm in the middle of an out of the city project so I am not free to travel until December. If we clicked and become a couple, I hope you can find the time to fly and see me in person in 2-4 months. I won't be able to commit until we spend time in person.

If you enjoyed my post and see that we fit, please send me a thoughtful message and attach your pics so we can check our compatibility. I will prioritize those who sends me their pics and well-thought messages.

Please be willing to verify too. 

Thank you for reading my post. 

Ciao!  💋