About me: I'm a 35-year-old woman who is looking for a long-term relationship with someone who is interested in the same thing. I am pansexual though I am heterosexual-leaning. I am open-minded, generally a homebody, I enjoy reading and being creative (whether that's creating art or being creative in the bedroom), I enjoy watching movies/tv, playing video games. I am sarcastic and enjoy friendly bantering with others.

What I look like: I'm a plus-sized, curvy, 5'5'', white woman, with an ass to die for, if I do say so myself. I have short curly dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

Who I'm looking for: I'm looking for someone to talk to and hang out with. This person would be in or around the greater Moncton area. Someone who is willing to take things slow - though I'd want to meet sooner rather than later to see if we have chemistry. Ideally, this person would be between the ages of 30-45.

While I am looking for a relationship, I still am pretty busy so I am looking for someone who is independent and has their own passions - I have obligations that won't allow me to control a sub 24/7. I am looking for a partner, someone interested in an equal relationship in public and in everyday life, someone to have conversations with and share opinions, go on dates with, someone to eventually share a life with; but in the bedroom, I want someone interested and even relishing in allowing me to lead and take control.

Kinks: My biggest kink is that I'm dominant - though I would classify myself as a gentle domme. I am interested in light impact play (spanking or with an implement), light CBT, pegging, edging/teasing, soft restraints/bondage, shibari. I'd love to explore this and more with the right person. Kink-wise, I'm pretty open to trying a lot depending on the circumstances. Consent and communication are non-negotiable for me - if you don't want to discuss things beforehand, I don't think this will work out.

Hard limits: Underage, real harm, blood, cnc, scat.

If you're local (this part is super important!) and the above sounds interesting, please send me a message telling me a little about yourself and what you're looking for.