Hello there,

My name is Vinz. After a period of thoughtful observation, I've gathered the courage to step forward in my search for the right person. I'm not searching for a fairytale romance but a genuine connection with a woman who knows exactly what she wants. If that sounds like you, and you're interested in building a robust and long-term relationship with the potential to become a lifelong partner, I hope you'll enjoy reading the detailed but enjoyable post below.

Who Am I:

The man of your dreams? Yeah, I know it sounds cheesy, but cliches have their appeal, right?

I'm 37 years old, 180cm tall, with an average build at 71kg. I have raven hair and hazel eyes. I don't smoke, and I'm a social drinker. I have a successful career in the banking sector and now work from home most of the time. I've been based in London for the past year and a half, but I'm originally from India and have lived in East and Southeast Asia for most of my life.

As someone who is a closeted introvert, I am naturally soft-spoken and nurturing, valuing sincere and profound conversations. My friends often describe me as an attentive and empathetic listener. While I am thoughtful about the future, I also embrace a carefree attitude towards life. I'm categorized as INTP-A (Logician), and my love languages are Acts of service (performing this for my partner), Physical touch (I really love being held affectionately and cuddling), Words of affirmation (hearing them), and getting to spend Quality time with each other.

In terms of hobbies, I'm a huge book nerd, especially when it comes to fantasy (preferably high or epic fantasy) and sci-fi (currently reading Revelation Space). Apart from books, I also love exploring new stories and worlds in video games (mostly single-player stuff – currently immersed in solving an intense time-loop mystery in The Outer Wilds) and anime (currently watching Chained Soldier – as the name implies, there's an interesting FLR/kink dynamic at play here).

My mental health and well-being are top priorities, and I maintain a lifestyle that focuses on yoga and meditation. I also find solace in nature and try to go for long walks every morning and evening.

SFW pic of me – https://imgur.com/a/SoouvHn.

Who You Are:

I'd like to connect with someone between 30 and 40 (open to negotiating within a reasonable range of /- 3 years). It's important to me that you're a non-smoker and that we can be open and honest with each other. Trust and mutual respect mean the world to me.

While physical attraction is important, I value our personalities and emotional connection more than looks or body type, although taking care of physical and mental well-being is a priority.

I find confidence to be an attractive trait, and I am interested in someone who is assertive in displaying this quality and who has a strong belief in their ability to achieve their goals.

Ideally, you'd be located in London, as meeting up and spending time together in person is essential once we've established some level of comfort. However, I'm open to considering other locations in the UK if you're willing to travel frequently.

Sharing interests in books, gaming, and anime would be a significant advantage, as enjoying and discussing the same media content would be fantastic.

Ultimately, I am searching for a friend and partner for a romantic and loving long-term relationship. Together, we would explore FLR, prioritize meeting your desires and needs, and build a genuine relationship.

Where We Match:

I discovered my submissive nature at a young age when I found the world of Femdom and BDSM. As I grew up and gained a better understanding of FLR, I realized that I wanted to be with a partner to serve her needs and desires rather than using it as a platform for meeting my own kinks. While my own needs are important, they must be secondary to serving my partner in the way she wants. I want to focus on learning about her and what would make her happy.

I'm not interested in a relationship dynamic based solely on fulfilling specific desires, and that leads to us becoming kink dispensers. It's essential that we recognize and appreciate each other as multifaceted individuals. I'm genuinely intrigued by the prospect of delving into all aspects of your life – your passions, what drives you, and your dreams for the future – and I hope to leave a sincere and profound impression on you.

I am drawn to women who are confident, able to project a strong sense of self, and who can provide an aura of safety and support for me to be vulnerable and open. There is certainly something to be said about someone’s ability to project quiet confidence. If you have an interest in domination that combines mind-play and psychological elements, it would be a big bonus.

I am also not looking for an online-only relationship. Physical presence and connection are essential to building a strong relationship. We can use Reddit chat/DM to get to know each other a bit, and once we have established a connection, we can meet in person to further check compatibility.

What’s Life Without Kink:

I want to share some of the elements I am interested in exploring, such as TPE, bondage, feminization, psychological domination, spanking, teasing & denial, service submission, body worship, giving massages, being locked in a cage/restricted spaces, and verbal humiliation.

On the flip side, I have some boundaries related to heavy play elements like extreme pain, branding, bi/cuck play, body fluids, PiV, and public play*.

These are just some initial bits and bobs, and I'm totally open to chatting more about them if you're interested. You can also find more about my preferences on my kink sheet – https://imgur.com/BYAXMur.

I'd like to provide more insight on a few of these elements:

• Feminization – this doesn't simply focus on humiliation aspects or sissy play; I find happiness when dressing in femme style, and have a solid desire to properly learn what it means to be feminine and explore femininity with someone I genuinely trust and care about. Expressing my personal style and exploring femininity are really important to me, and it's essential for this to be a part of our lifestyle. When reaching out, please address me using my femme name, Zoe, to show that you have taken the time to read and understand my profile.

• Giving massages – this isn't exactly related to kinks. I just love giving relaxing massages, particularly for feet, and I find so much joy in helping others.

• Public play – right now, this is a soft limit for me. I’m interested in pushing and exploring this boundary further with someone I trust wholeheartedly.

What’s Next Then?

Well, first off, thanks for taking the time to read my post in full. Hurray!! I hope you found it engaging and enlightening, perhaps even eliciting a chuckle with my attempt at humor. Let's hope for that!

If you're interested in getting to know me better, feel free to reach out via chat or DM. Please share some details about yourself—your ASL, interests, desires, and what you are expecting from a partner and relationship. I would appreciate it if you could put some effort into this—just saying "hi" would not elicit a valuable response.

Just to be clear, I prefer to ease into any discussions about kink. I believe it's important to first understand each other as individuals and gauge our compatibility. Once we establish that, I'd be excited to meet in person for a casual cup of coffee or something similar. If we share a strong connection, then we can explore kink-related interactions.

I value authenticity, so I do ask for verification. My photo is readily available, and I would appreciate it if you could verify your identity as well. This helps ensure that we are both sincere and not wasting each other's time.

If you are solely focused on selling content on OnlyFans or seeking online interactions, I kindly ask that you refrain from reaching out to me further. While I respect those pursuits, I am personally seeking something more substantial.