I’m Gretchen, nice to meet you. I’ve posted here before and thought I’d found my sub/boy a couple of different times, but for one reason or another it hasn’t worked out. So after a needed break, I’m back to see if my elusive sub/boy is out there.

A little about me. I am married and in an open marriage. He will gladly verify that with you if needed. I’m pansexual, but right now I’m more interested in a male sub. I am a sports nerd. I love watching football, baseball and hockey. I also love to read, listen to podcasts…mainly about history…and all kinds of music. Though my favorite band is the Foo Fighters, Dave Grohl is the best! I listen to lots of country too. I love to travel and have luckily been all over the US and also different countries. My favorite US spot is Boston and my favorite international one is New Zealand.

I am 5’4 1/2” tall, have brown hair, hazel eyes and I wear glasses. I am a larger woman. There is a picture of me on my profile. I am all natural when it comes to down below. I know that’s a turn on for some and a turn off for others, so I like to be upfront, since that’s not changing and you may see me naked one day.

I am open to a lot of things when it comes to kinks. I like masculine men and feminine ones. I like men who will dress up for me if I ask, and ones that do it because they love to. I enjoy controlling orgasms, and using cages. But locking your cock up is not a requirement. I enjoy the trust it takes to control your orgasm from afar. I am not too good at degradation, I’m more of a nurturer. I may call you a slut or whore, but it’s said more in a teasing and caring way. I really am looking for a sub/boy to get to know. Not just in a kinky, sexual way, but really get to know you. I want to be someone you can lean on if you need to. Knowing I’ll be there for you and care for you. Really think about that before you message. Because a lot of men have said that’s what they want, but it then just ends up being all sexual and trying to turn me into a kink dispenser. Which I am not.

Kinks I’m not into are animals, knives and needles, skat, extreme pain or permanent markings. Also, I can be a Mommy Dom, but I am not your actual mother, nor do I want to be.

I am preferably looking for someone in America or Canada because of the time difference and being able to talk to each other. But I’m open to other countries too, if we click. I feel online is probably going to work best for me, but I am open to meeting if you live in Wisconsin, or close to it. I cannot host though.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, go ahead and drop me a chat message on here. If things go further we can change to texting or using another app to communicate.