If this post is still up i'm still looking, so feel free to send a message even if it's just to say hi

About me:

Enjoys long walks on the beach, the smell of summer rain, reading, and bad music.

I like all things sci-fi, sushi, coffee, beer, play guitar in two bands, and have recently gotten back into watching shows, some anime, reading comics, and playing more games. I'm white with blue eyes, tall (6'2), have a currently average to almost thin/muscular build, https://imgur.com/a/yqawwCe I am active and workout on anyday time allows.

I also love going to shows, karaoke, chilling at dive bars, arcades that have Dance Dance Revolution, and hanging with friends. Please talk about bands/music to me I won't shut up. Also getting into traveling, I visited Ireland last year and it was amazing.

Personality wise I would say I'm pretty down to earth, mostly calm but can but can get excited about alot of things, and like to talk about anything. On the surface, I'm always the person my friends can count on for help and present myself as a chaotic good type. However underneath that I crave someone to worship and adore. I have not gotten to express my submissive side in relationships super often but have experiences with Mistresses and Doms in the past.

I currently live in North NJ (with pride, but not so much I wouldn't leave) and have extremely easy city access (30 mins to midtown by bus) and a car. I also work in NYC but can be remote frequently. Could allow for the opportunity for me to be waiting on my knees for you to get home at some point. ( I am aware of the meme when they say NY NJ you know which one they live in lmao)

What I'm looking for:

Smarts and nerdiness are a huge plus, but looking for someone that above all that I just genuinely enjoy their company and time.

Ideally would like something that can end up in a romantic situation and LTR but I'm also open to casual play, above all I want to serve and feel owned. I think the hottest thing in the world is having a dominant partner, someone I break my mental barriers for and want to serve/do anything to make her happy not just in the bedroom. Whether it's being on my knees whenever she asks, cleaning in a maid outfit, or pretty much any power exchange scenario. Learning to exactly the type of things she likes and providing them regularly. Someone whose ass I kiss both literally and figuratively. Someone I would absolutely be hard-pressed to ever tell them no, and would deserve punishment if I did.

What I am into:

Some of the things I'm into kinkwise are : bdsm, pegging, body worship of any kind, being collared, pet play, cei, power exchange, mental domination, rope play, impact, public play, humiliation, roleplay, wearing panties, acts of servitude, choking, gags, blindfolds, watersports. Not being into one or more of these is not a deal breaker for me either but I will mention power exchange and the mental aspect of submitting is my favorite. I am into a little more than I listed that I'll divulge upon over dm if you're interested and I like keeping an open mind for new experiences. Also into cuddling and holding hands. If there something not listed you enjoy, feel free to tell me or ask about it, I will very likely be into it.

Are you interested?

Would love to chat about what you like! Or anything for that matter I'm going to be an open book. Maybe we could feel things out over coffee first or video call too and I can pass the vibe check or earn my way to being by your side. I would really like for whatever this starts as to turn into a relationship but that's obviously a two way street. Online play is fine too at first, but please be local or willing to meet eventually. Absolutely willing to share more pictures upon request as well.

Message me on Reddit and if something works easier (discord, insta, or something else) we can figure it out.