Hello there, I’m a 33yo chubby man looking for a soft domme. I’d love to start online and if the vibes are right, take it to the next level. I’d be willing to travel 3 to 4 hours from Kansas City for the right domme.

I’m currently teaching myself woodworking skills, I just acquired a used wood lathe so I’m diving head first into that. I play video games and ashamed to say I catch myself doom scrolling TikTok more than is healthy.

I work 40 hours a week during the day so that’s my slow to respond window. As stated in my opening line, I’m a chubby guy. I am on a weight loss journey though. I’ve lost 70 pounds in the last 8 months and have a ways to go. I’m bald by choice with brown eyes.

Things I’d like to see in you.

I don’t have many preferences but I’d like you to have hair, I’m not into to bald ladies. Major plus if you have bangs. I’d want you to be a supportive person. If you’re mean just to be mean please move on. Fat shaming is a hard limit. I’d like you to be within 3 to 4 hours from Kansas City and willing to have an online connection first. Please be in the age range of 25 to 40. If you are slightly outside that range, shoot your shot and we’ll see where it goes.

My Femdom Preferences

I want structure and routine plus punishment if I fail to do your commands, that goes without saying. Chastity is something I’m very interested in trying. Doing chores and tasks you set for me. I like writing so we could incorporate that. In real life, I’d want facesitting, and body worshipping. Foot play. Blindfolds, and orgasm denial/ ruining. There are a lot of things I haven’t tried and am open to. As long as we talk about it first I’ll try most things at least once.

If you made it this far please reach out. I have discord and telegram if you’d prefer one of those platforms. Until then please reach out and have a wonderful day :)