hello again. sadly, my search continues, so let me make a long ass post to try and narrow down the search.

basic about me; i'm 21 years old, from finland. autistic and agoraphobic - please look up what agoraphobia is. i am not currently working or in education. i'm 5'2 ish, 157cm tall and weigh about 160lbs. for the kg users, i fluctuate between 70-75kg. i am POLYAMOROUS and PARTNERED by my boyfriend of 4 years. here's me, now updated with my pink hair. i'm also bisexual!!!!!

personality wise, i can be a bit dry if i'm not absolutely completely obsessed with you. i'm stoic to a degree - but i become animated and hyper when discussing something important to me. to put it simply; i'm like a cold princess who only warms up at the thought of sweets, spiders and lace.

my interests are basically anything feminine, anything fashion related. i love classical music and vocaloid. i love rhythm games, and i loooove long youtube video essays about fundamentalist christians. as mentioned above - i love spiders. i love painting as well! i paint like. almost everyday.

who i'm looking for; alright, the nitty gritty part. i'm looking for someone who is depraved, nasty, naughty, and disgusting. pathetic to the point where all i feel is pity. someone who gets excited from the smallest bit of teasing, but would fully pretend they hate what i'm talking about. basically; i want a pathetic incel who i can bully and love on. NOT AN ACTUAL INCEL THO 😭 PLEASE 😭 NO MISOGYNISTS!!!! if you give in easily and are generally very obedient, we are not a match. but i also want to feel desired - so don't constantly brat me either.

kinks; chastity (!), exhibitionism, denial (!), dry humping, gentle femdom, feminization, degradation and praise (!), brat taming, size kink, pegging (!). soft limit would include omorashi and sounding. hard limit is any kind of beastiality, scat, permanent damage to either partner, any form of ageplay.

physically, i enjoy more feminine looking people - but not as feminine as me. trans/nb are welcome as well<3 someone in the between ages of 18-26. i don't do well with body hair. i like longer hair though! i don't care about height, but usually i'm more attracted to tall and lanky people. tallness is like, anyone who's taller than 5'5.

sfw side, i would want someone who atleast somewhat enjoys videogames, anime, and is chronically online. sarcasm and dry humor is fine, but i might not pick up on it at first. basically, i like sassy, bratty, funny people who also care about my pleasure and me as a person.

i am not looking for a 24/7 dynamic. i'm looking for more of a GFD and FLR dynamic. i'm looking for a RELATIONSHIP! i'm currently looking for ONLINE ONLY. i don't do phone sex/video sex, only SFW and romantic calls. pictures and videos are more of my thing.

who i do not want?

anyone who is over 30 years old; genuinely ask yourself "do i as a 35 year old have a lot in common with a 21 year old neet?". someone who doesn't understand gen z/ tiktok humor. someone who is generally right-leaning or is somehow against trans people. goes the other way too - if you fetishize trans people, skip me completely.

how to get a reply and build a lasting connection?

♡ start by giving A/S/L. ♡ discuss kinks shortly, and move on from the topic. ♡ explain why you think i am for you. ♡ start a conversation - tell me your weirdest take on something. ♡ being actively yourself - tell me about your interests. ♡ be fun, sassy; let's complain about weird men together! ♡ honestly, if you call me super pretty and shower me in compliments while being pathetic, i will probably reply.

the do's and dont's of messaging me;

♡ do include pictures [SFW ONLY]. ♡ send me a meme. ♡ do not be afraid of making a long introduction message. ♡ treat me with respect and kindness. ♡ if you're going to brat, do it when you know the guidelines, not from the get go. ♡ i do not want to talk about my current working/studying situation - so let's skip that completely.

✗ do not send just a hey. ✗ do not title me from the beginning. ✗ do not treat me like a sex object, just here to call you a slut and get you off. ✗ do not ask if you can be my sub. ✗ i can be a bit shallow - so show yourself immediately or not at all. ✗ do not try and dom me - i will throw up and block you. ✗ don't tell me the size of your junk — i don't care.

TLDR; i want a pookie who's pathetic kitty boy with large ego who i can bully and pamper.

to close this post out, if you replied to my previous post and did not receive a reply, try again, but with this new knowledge of how to reach out to me properly. also, it might take me a bit to reply back since reddit loves being shitty!

(also i hope this somehow makes the only-horny people deterred from messaging me! jfc, its so hard to figure out which ones are actually interested in me and which ones are just interested in getting dommed)

edit: formatting :3