I think the title says it all, but allow me to further elaborate. I'm a well respected clinical psychologist who graduated with a PhD at a west coast university that you've most likely heard of. I teach at a local university, run a research lab, and also work clinically in and outside of the hospital. I'm well regarded, some may even say an expert in certain subtopics of psychology. I'm very masculine presenting, a true guys-guy so to speak. I'm opinionated, confident (some have even said cocky), and about as assertive as they come. I'm sure everyone in my life thinks that this is the very last place they'd find me, but here I am.

And here I am because deep down, on the purest level, I'm a submissive little bitch. Nothing drives me more than the thought of finding the perfect woman to serve and obey, to let her shape me and please her, and to turn over every aspect of my sexuality to. Own me, make me yours, and make me exactly what you want me to be. I know that sounds dramatic, or like my life and mindset are the plot to some smutty book, but it's me through and through. My life is perfect, except for the lack of a dominate woman to fully take control. And because of that, nothing in my life feels perfect at all. So, my search for the right person to fill this void continues.

About me: I'm 31 and live in a prominent west coast city. I have a lot on my plate, so most of my time is filled with work and planning around work. In the time I have left, I work out, enjoy cooking, and read a lot. I also write, and have several publications of various types in circulation. I eat well, dress well, keep my spaces clean, and pride myself on being "put together". I'm an intellectual, if you hadn't got that, and actively fight against being too pretentious in all my endeavors. I love the arts, sports, and really haven't met someone I don't get along with. I guess that comes with the territory.

About you: I honestly don't know yet. I've had several dynamics in the past, and honestly the demographics that I've worked best with vary immensely. I've worked well with older women, younger women, those of various cultural backgrounds. I'm open to anything. I don't mind if you're attached either, whether romantically or BDSM wise. Those types of dynamics can be quite hot, after all. I'm staying open.

I don't want to give a full kink list here, but briefly I love being humiliated, orgasm control (I have a wildly high sex drive), and all things exhibitionistic. I love to please more than anything, and if we are a match your kinks will be my kinks. Simple as that.

I know that there is a lot to digest here, but here are some common questions asked in a Q&A format:

Q: So I am older than you. Perhaps by quite a bit. What do you think of that?

A: I love it. The experience and maturity that comes with age is so appealing in this setting. Don't let that hold you back from reaching out.

Q: What if I'm younger or less experienced?

A: I'm totally open to that as well. I love working with new dommes as they explore, and I think as long as communication stays open and honest we'd be fine. Of course, be legal.

Q: So I'm married...

A: Not a question, but also fine with me. It's your life, and if you're comfortable, I'm comfortable.

Q: I need full discretion, dealbreaker?

A: Not at all, I do too. As you can imagine, this would be professionally devastating to me. All media and conversation would be strictly between us. No doxing, either way.

Q: Would you consider a findom arrangement?

A: While I total respect the premise, it's not for me. I need a sexual, emotional, and psychological connection, not a financial one. Also, no OF requests please.

Q: Where do I apply?

A: Send resumes and cover letters in here! Let me know what stood out in your post, why you think we'd be a good pairing, and a little about yourself. Send a picture if you're brave!

Can't wait to hear from you!