Hello! Going to give this another go. Let’s hit the most important bits right up top:

• I am looking for the real deal. Not casual, no flings. I want someone to come home to. Don’t waste my time or yours if you’re looking for someone you’re not willing to meet in due course.
• I am monogamous. I’d prefer you be as well.
• I need to take time to get to know someone before I’m comfortable with intimacy of any sort. That’s why being in it for the long haul matters. :)

I like the bullet outline formatting, actually, let’s stick with it for this next bit.

Here’s what I’d like from you (for the most part, these are nice-to-haves):

• Monogamous and single
• 26-35
• No children (very negotiable)
• Good hair
• POLITICALLY LEFT-LEANING
• Primarily submissive
• Confident and decisive in other areas of your life
• Ambitious and driven (not necessarily work-related!)
• Good sense of humor
• Preferably a woman, but I’m open to any gender

Now that you know what I’m looking for, let’s talk about me.

I am 32, with a good career. I’m pretty, though not particularly skinny. I’d call myself mid-sized. I look like an amalgamation of every woman in Victorian-era paintings, if that helps. I’m a very feminine person, in the stereotypical sense — I like to wear dresses and skirts, prefer creative hobbies like writing and drawing, and love nothing more than a good period romance (My Lady Jane, Pride and Prejudice (2005), and a slew of romantasy novels, to give you an idea). I’m a gentle person for the most part, maybe even dainty, and I try to extend that gentleness into kindness and understanding toward others.

That being said, I’m also a huge nerd. I play a lot of video games (it’s probably my most intensive hobby, I LOVE modding games like Skyrim) and I want to install floor-to-ceiling bookshelves for all my books wherever I move next. Also, I’m a cat person. Dogs are fine. Cats have my heart, though.

By all rights, I shouldn’t be single, but bad luck (seriously, ask me about my dating stories) and not wanting to settle keep me free. I’d love to be tied down — metaphorically.

Speaking of, yes, I’m a domme. Ironically, I don’t care for tying all that much! I like mental play more than physical toys for the most part. Hypnosis is my biggest kink, and I like using it to see all the ways I can amplify my sub’s experience, fuck around with their perception, and obviously encourage them to treat me like a princess. It’s not a need-to-have, but it is certainly nice.

I’m not into chastity or pegging, so reset what you expect from a domme with me. I want someone playful and creative (and hopefully a little toppy, in terms of physical positioning — I would not call myself a top). I’m fairly soft, all things considered, but i’m certainly willing to explore within reason.

Think we’d be a good match? I’d love to hear from you. Preferably use the chat over DMs, please, those are easier for me to respond to.