Hello :) Let’s get straight into it…

Me: * 25, blonde, slim, just shy of 5’10”. * I have a thriving career in tech (what a nerd) which keeps me busy. * My interests include bookshops, painting and drawing, knitting, wine, theatre, and whooping ass at poker. * I’m an experienced domme with very high expectations.

My love language is all of them, so you’ve got to be a multilingual octopus. But my main one is receiving gifts. Spoiling me is a fail-safe way to maintain my attention and happiness — it immediately puts me into that dominant mindset and makes me feel worshipped. My other kinks include orgasm control, bondage and restriction, service submission, light impact play, CBT, body worship, ass play, and many more. I’m definitely on the sweeter side, but I do enjoy throwing in some humiliation. I enjoy exploring new sides to kink, but my limits include heavy impact play, scat, being called mommy, and sounding.

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You: * Older subs welcome and generally preferred, but not essential. * A provider type. I want a good boy who seeks to bring ease and enjoyment to my life. * Someone who gives me more reasons to find life exciting. Once we’ve established a connection, you need to have a genuine focus on making my life better, easier, safer, more vibrant, and more comfortable. * Actively submissive, not passively. You don’t just wait around for my orders, but instead you can take initiative and anticipate my needs (once we know each other better). Having to think up ways for you to serve me all the time does not make my life easier, it actually adds mental load. * I’m interrupting this bullet list to ask that, should you be interested, you begin your first message to me with an asterisk, just so I know you’ve read my ad properly. * Extremely good communication. I’m a fairly unserious/dry/sarcastic person, but I take being a domme very seriously. If you can’t match me on that, we’re not compatible. * I like a sub with a bit of experience so they have a good idea of their kinks and limits, and also knows how to adore a woman to her satisfaction. * Competent and independent. I don’t want a man to submit to me because he is weak and mediocre, I want a man with a lot going for him so he can use that amazingness to serve me. There’s also nothing better than a great man who can still recognise my power.

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I would prefer an arrangement where we have a real connection outside of kink, can have great conversations, and can generally enjoy the vanilla things in life together.

If you think you can meet my expectations then send me a DM with your age, general location, vanilla interests, and experience with kink. I look forward to it!