Hey there! I'm Charlie. I'm looking for a romantic connection with a Dominant woman, preferably long-term. FLR preferable but not required.

About Me

Check my picture on my profile to get an impression of what I kinda look like!

Anyway, I’m a simple dude - don't care about having the nicest car on the block or building up some kind of enormous reputation. All I want in my life is to enjoy myself and do my part for the people around me as well. I work in local government and have a background in psychology. I consider myself to be left-wing as I don’t support politics that are in favor of human suffering.

I'm also pretty introverted. I like a small party with friends and like-minded folks every now and then, but most of all prefer spending quality time with someone one-on-one, especially when that someone is my romantic partner.

I have a ton of things I enjoy doing. I'm a couch potato that's into video games, board games, and much more; but I also have a penchant for adrenaline and nature in that I love hikes, rollercoasters, snowboarding, surfing, the occasional adventure, a bit of backpacking, you name it!

Then a little about kinks and sexual things
Aside from my theory that, to me, kink is an amplification of my love languages, my subbing style can be described through 2 main categories. A short disclaimer here however, as I do have limited experience, but experience nonetheless.

• Worship: I get pleasure from giving pleasure; I want to do everything in my power to serve and make my partner/Domme feel good. Taking care of your needs as much as I can, both sexual & non-sexual is something I would be so intensely happy about. Massages, oral, sexual service, tasks, baking delicious food and much much more, whatever you want. My desire is to make you feel as if you're in heaven, that you are at your peak for as long as you want and definitely deserve. Serving your needs and wants, and seeing you fulfilled, satisfied, and most importantly comfortable, is the end goal, how we get there is just the bonus :)
• Ownership: Ultimately, I want to become the property of my partner/Domme. Both in the sexual and non-sexual sense ('Free use' kink is also very much something I'm interested in exploring) At some point, I want to feel that I'm utterly and completely yours, devoted to you and you alone. Submitting my mind, my body, and my soul for you to do with, make use of, and cherish as you see fit - that's the dream. Physical reminders, conditioning, being used sexually, so many options.
• Unless they're limits I'm very much into or at the very least curious about a lot of kinks within Femdom, just ask!

As for my limits

Here's a brief rundown of the big ones.

Soft Limits (in other words, open for discussion):

• Humiliation
• Degradation

Hard Limits:

• No poly/cuckold/forced bi/open relationships. On either side. No exceptions.
  
• No scat, vomit, blood, piss
• No Extreme torture (intense pain that can cause lasting damage and whatnot)
• Public humiliation / Public Exhibitionism (I don't like bothering other people with my kinks when they haven't consented to this. Doing things in secret in a public place is a different story! Also I'm a prude lol)
• Body shaming / Bigotry

Now about who I'm looking for:
Someone who:

• doesn't smoke tobacco
• is monogamous.
• doesn't have kids & doesn't want kids
• is not an anti-vaxxer
• is a full domme (there's not a dominant bone in my body so taking charge is not something I'm comfortable doing - also outside of the bedroom)
• Is into similar hobbies as me (think mainly nerdy things, and a bit of interest in the occasional adventure)
• Matches a bit kink-wise (I'm very flexible, but I think a bit of overlap is probably best!)

Send me a message if you feel like you want to get to know me a bit better. There's a lot I haven't talked about yet! Let me know ASL please!

P.S: If you speak Dutch, feel free to message me in Dutch!

== Results from bdsmtest==
100% Submissive
87% Slave
84% Rope bunny
82% Experimentalist
81% Pet
61% Masochist
47% Vanilla
39% Degradee
23% Primal (Prey)
18% Exhibitionist
16% Voyeur
7% Brat
0% Age player
0% Boy/Girl
0% Non-monogamist
0% Switch