alright, hello. the title in and of itself is so weird, but let me explain! also a wall of text incoming...

i want someone who's fun — who knows how to hold a conversation and is chronically online. maybe someone who's super nerdy and geeky - someone with a lot of personality. someone who is not very demure and cutesy. someone who has a fire in them - who knows what they want, and wants to be the prize in the relationship. i want to be in the role of pursuing you.

a bit about me, 21, finnish, 5'2 or 157cm. i fluctuate between 70-75kg so like 160lbs. i have piercings (septum and double lip), and am planning to get more. i am autistic and agoraphobic. i'm POLYAMOROUS, and PARTNERED BY MY BOYFRIEND OF 4 YEARS. i'm bisexual. here is me.

i love anything feminine - painting my nails, doing my makeup, learning about fashion. i also dabble in playing videogames, anime and the like. currently very into lolita fashion. i also love history. i also love classical music and currently am obsessed with will wood and malice mizer.

personality wise, i can say i can be quite dry and a bad texter unless i am utterly interested. i can either be super stoic or the most bubbliest girl you've met — just has to do with the mood i'm in.

alright, let's get into the kinky stuff;

i love pathetic men. the more perverted you are, the more fun i have. i wish i could make a cute dude blush and cry from ecstacy - someone who i can think about putting in a chastity and watch leak all over himself.

that being said, i enjoy a bit of brattiness. i love tsunderes. i love the whole "ugh, i hate you but you make me feel so good". like maybe imagine the antisocial school reject and the popular girl. i would love it if you told me to shut up, just for me to continue talking. i enjoy that kind of prissy energy.

specific kink talk; chastity, usual D/S dynamic, degradation and praise, feminization, pegging, gentle femdom maybe, dry humping. my hard limit is scat.

i also will wholeheartedly believe i am superior to you in every way, at any point in time. i want you to bend to my will but at the cost of your pride. the more you "dislike" it, the cuter you become - i want to make you flustered and embarrassed. i think it's cute to watch a man squirm - so if any of this sounds fun, i'd love to talk.

alright, and who i don't want? if you text like a millenial, "oh haha 😄" kind of thing. clinginess is okay when we know each other, but demanding a response is icky. i'm not putting an age bracket, but the closer to my age, the better. someone who's looking to dominate is also not for me. i also enjoy a more longer term connection than a single text exchange. someone who likes to be challenged. i can be a bit shallow, so either show me yourself or don't show yourself at all.

TLDR: i want to "chase" a cute boy who has a massive ego.

when reaching out, do not title me from the beginning. just so i know you've atleast read this through once, send me a "🎈" emoji. any low effort "hey"s will not be receiving a reply.