Hi there! I’ve been in the lifestyle for some time now and am so ready to find that lasting relationship that can go the distance. I’m 33/m, and currently located in a mid-sized city within the Mid-South of the United States. I work remotely for a technology company, which affords a lifestyle that allows for relocation, should the right opportunity present itself.

In my day to day life, I’m a well-traveled lover of the world, who is always looking for a new place to explore, new restaurants and bars to sample, and fun hobbies to share with close friends. I’m a big fan of games and competition of any sort, so let’s plan a board game/video game/dave and buster’s date, I’d be thrilled! I’ve also spent a lot of time in the last few years expanding my love of working in and around the kitchen, so if you enjoy trying new foods and being treated to a nice home-cooked meal, we might be a great match. Bonus points if you have good taste in cocktails and wines to pair with whatever I’m making. :-) If you are the kind of traveler who has Global Entry and lounge access, you’ll easily take your accustomed spot at the front of the line.

In my kink life, I’m a lover of new things, so I won’t go too in-depth into hard and firm kinks, because I’ve been pleasantly surprised in the past! I know I enjoy chastity/orgasm control, impact, heavy bondage, and anal play, but I’ve always said I’ll try most things at least twice. ;-) Limits include the usual blood/gore/scat/etc., as well as publicly visible marks and blackmail style play; I’m lucky to live a life that requires being visible to others, so I’d prefer we keep our play between us and the kink community!

Ideally, I’d love if you are confident in your desire for dominance; switches welcome (I make a great service top!). I’d prefer that you are stable in your life and career already, with extra credit given for somebody who has spent time working on themself via therapy/self-help/whatever fills your cup. I’m thankful that I’ve had the chance to do the same, and I would love for us to build something amazing together that’s more than the sum of our already amazing individual parts.

Happy to connect via messaging or Reddit chat at first, and we can move to another platform after we see if there’s a potential match. I’ll likely insist on us both verifying after a few days or so of chatting, just so we both know we’re real and what we look like!

Have an amazing Monday, and I can’t wait to talk to you soon.