About Me

Let's start off by telling you a bit about me: I am 23 and as the title says, I am a med student. So I spend a lot of time in Uni, where I also work part time. Despite living in the netherlands, my dutch is awful and I'd prefer to communicate in english. I am 184cm (Google tells me that equals 6'04''). If you are interested, I can send a blurred SFW image of me. I am aiming to become a psychiatrist, so psychology and medicine are big interests for me. Of course I am also into nerdy stuff. I play a lot of video games (mainly JRPGS, Roguelikes and Metroidvenias), am into Fantasy and D&D and I am a huge music nerd. But of course - while I like to talk about hobbies, I am also interested in something else. Which leads us to:

My Ideal Domme

For this, I will follow the template:I am looking for 18 - 29. I don't mind an older women than me, but I feel like similar experiences help communications. So I'd go for someone at least somewhat close to my age. As I plan to keep this online, location doesn't strictly matter, but maybe a similar time zone might be favourable. Physically, there is no eliminating factor, but I am generally looking for a health conscious person. I gained some weight over the last exam phase (went from 79kg to 87kg) that I now try to loose by going to the gym and by doing sports and I would like someone who also shares these goals. Everybody should feel comfortable with themselves, but I'd love someone who wants to work on themselves (whatever than means for them) or at least encourages it for me. In terms of dom style, I think I prefer (as the title says) a softer dom style. I am not excited by being degraded but rather by being flustered. So a flirty, pushy personality, while you ask for exactly what you want would be perfect. But my limits should be respected. I am willing to do a lot, but nothing that ever endangers me or my career.

My Femdom Preference

For this, I have made a kinklist - but depending on the situation, certain ratings might change. So be sure to ask to try something that I may have not marked as positive. In general, I love exhibitionism and showing off. Edging, joi, and teasing is also very hot to me. While I prefer to cum, I am also fine with cum control, as long as it doesn't span more than a week. At first I wouldn't send pictures with my face, but I'd be willing to do that if I know you better and if you are willing to verify as well. In general, I don't need nudes from you, but pictures would be appreciated. Luckily, corresponding to my height, I am relatively hung (18.5cm / 7.3 inches). I am not comfortable with posting the image here, but I am willing to verify if you message me privately. I also have three toys: An anal plug, an anal vibrator and a Max 2. As for hard limits, I'd have to name self-harm and toilet stuff. Also not keen on eating my own cum. Again - I don't want to be degraded, I want to be trained.

Preferred d/s style:

From my previous texts I think it becomes obvious, that I want to hold onto my human rights somewhat. I am willing (and excited by) following tasks within certain limits. Communication is important and I need my limits to be respected, while trying to push myself a bit. Because of this, I am willing to try training relationships and I'd be willing to try master / servant. But for the second, I need you to be a kind master. I can't be available 24/7 due to work, but if you give me tasks over the day, I will complete them. Sometimes I might have to take a few days off as well, if I get really busy. But I would always let you know first.

Next Steps

I will answer quite fast I think. Ideally you add me here. Then we can discuss the details. I hope to hear from you.