If this is up, I'm still looking! Please read all of it and don't reply if any of my dealbreakers apply to you. It's a waste of my time and yours. If you do reply, I expect you to put in *at least* as much effort as I did in crafting my ad. No one-word or one-sentence messages. Don't call me Mommy/Miss/Ma'am or any other honorific. You are not my sub (yet.)

SFW Section:

I’m looking for a long-term, in-person relationship with a submissive man (preferably a little) between 35 and 59 years old.

Location: You should be within a two-hour drive of mid-Michigan. Closer is better. I want an in-person connection, even if it starts out long distance.

About Me:

I’m solo poly. My main partner is 99% online (I haven’t seen them in person since spring 2019) and I want something in person.

I’m an introvert. I prefer deep conversations over small talk. If I’m not dying to stay up all night talking to you, I’ll know it’s not going to work.

I’m educated, employed, intelligent, creative, and open-minded with a wide variety of interests and hobbies.

I’m an atheist and prefer that you are atheist or agnostic or indifferent about religion. If you are religious or devout we will not be a match.

I'm very progressive and left-leaning. This is important to me. If you are conservative, apolitical, not politically aware, and not left-leaning we will not be a match.

I don't have kids and I don't want kids. I'm not interested in dating anyone with kids of any age.

NSFW Section:

Experience: I’ve been doing BDSM off and on since the mid-1990s. I’m technically a switch, although I haven’t been a sub in RL for several years. I have experience both online and in person as a gentle / Mommy Domme and that is my preferred role.

Kinks: I'm into most of the common Mommy Domme kinks, especially chastity and ageplay. I am not interested in humiliating or belittling you.

Limits: Blood, scat, vomit, brats, illegal activities. We will certainly discuss kinks and limits in detail if a connection is formed.

Appearance: 5’ tall, curvy, BBW. Blue eyes. Short hair in various colors. Right now, it’s purple.

Looking For:

I’m looking for a long-term, in-person, romantic MD/lb relationship with a submissive man.

You should be employed, educated beyond high school, mature, and adventurous with a variety of hobbies and interests. You should be creative, love to travel, and want to explore. You should be a good conversationalist and be outgoing enough to want to meet my friends and family, if things get serious.

Deal breakers/Requirements:

• Between 35 and 59 years old.
• NO married or partnered men.
• No drug use or smoking.
• No kids.
• No STDs.

Ethically non-monogamous. I prefer that you have no other partners, but other male partners could be negotiated.

You must be honest and communicate openly and frequently. Ideally, we’d talk or be together daily once things are established.

I expect polite, respectful, PG messages from men who meet my criteria. All others will be ignored.